Showing posts with label rich older men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rich older men. Show all posts
Monday
Dating Rich Older Men - What Younger, Needy Women Don't Think About
When a young lady seeks to date a man who makes much money, what she doesn't realize is that he isn't going to be as available to her emotionally and possibly physically as she might imagine. The young woman is in for a rude awakening if she thinks that dating or marrying an older man will always consist of exotic travel and jaw-dropping shopping sprees.
I got the opportunity to speak to women who date older men and they were at times naïve when it came to talking about them. They were like giddy school girls who just saw a handsome boy walk by them. The eyes brightened, the speech sped up, and their bodies moved around a bit as if excited to talk about the subject. These women didn't think too much about the possibility of future disappointments like their allowances or gifts being cut off one day by their rich dates. They were too busy thinking about those promises their guys made such as plans to attend special events, give them gifts and eat at five star restaurants.
Most rich, older men don't abandon jobs, forget about children (and sometimes exes), and they aren't thinking too much about keeping a sexual partner around for too long. Instead they enjoy the "in the meantime" experience with an attractive, young lady and then on to the next best thing. Workaholic older men are too busy thinking about jobs and money to care much about a lover's feeling, accomplishments, and other things that matter. The selfish simply want their periodic sexual desires met with no strings attached. It isn't any wonder why many are divorced--the "it's all about me" philosophy doesn't go well with marriage, children, and household responsibilities.
The wealthy but cheap older men spend a great deal of time in doors on off days. They don't like going out much because all that means is more money spent that they prefer to save. Some young women are blind-sided by this type because they start off treating them so well, but in time the newness wears off and the older men's true selves begin to show especially after they have received what they wanted, sex with a beautiful woman and companionship. When things become dull, they grow weary of dating and relationships. So they give their all back to jobs or businesses while the gullible women check their phones hoping to hearing from them. "Could he be back with his wife? What am I going to do, he doesn't send any money anymore? I was starting to fall for that guy..."
What many gullible women overlook, at least initially during the early dating stages, are the self-absorbed attributes in successful men. They are consumed with getting their needs met from the start. The signs aren't easily recognized because these men tend to attract women like themselves. Selfish women are too busy focused on themselves to pay any attention to warning signs that a date might be trouble. When a woman is immature and desperate for things like: attention, money and sex, she won't think too much about how she is treated until her needs are no longer being met. "What's up with him? He use to be so nice. He gave me whatever I wanted! Now he is so mean!"
Dating rich older men is a bit different than dating broke, younger men. The men who know they can buy just about anyone or anything, expect to be pleased. So they want more for their time and money than a broken man who is just happy being with a head-turner 10.
Young women who date rich put up with things that other women wouldn't even consider. This is because most women are looking for more in a relationship besides money and gifts, but not the 10 looking for a 10. She wants cash, business, opportunities, and whatever else that rich man can afford to give her!
Since many successful men know that most people are after their cash, property, etc. they are going to be guarded and will not always come off as nice and accommodating especially when they are aware of a young woman's motives
. Whether you are rich and older or young and broke, know that whatever your intention if it isn't good, expect to be taken advantage of sooner or later.
Nicholl McGuire maintains this blog and is the author of She's Crazy (a book for battered men).
I got the opportunity to speak to women who date older men and they were at times naïve when it came to talking about them. They were like giddy school girls who just saw a handsome boy walk by them. The eyes brightened, the speech sped up, and their bodies moved around a bit as if excited to talk about the subject. These women didn't think too much about the possibility of future disappointments like their allowances or gifts being cut off one day by their rich dates. They were too busy thinking about those promises their guys made such as plans to attend special events, give them gifts and eat at five star restaurants.
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Most rich, older men don't abandon jobs, forget about children (and sometimes exes), and they aren't thinking too much about keeping a sexual partner around for too long. Instead they enjoy the "in the meantime" experience with an attractive, young lady and then on to the next best thing. Workaholic older men are too busy thinking about jobs and money to care much about a lover's feeling, accomplishments, and other things that matter. The selfish simply want their periodic sexual desires met with no strings attached. It isn't any wonder why many are divorced--the "it's all about me" philosophy doesn't go well with marriage, children, and household responsibilities.
The wealthy but cheap older men spend a great deal of time in doors on off days. They don't like going out much because all that means is more money spent that they prefer to save. Some young women are blind-sided by this type because they start off treating them so well, but in time the newness wears off and the older men's true selves begin to show especially after they have received what they wanted, sex with a beautiful woman and companionship. When things become dull, they grow weary of dating and relationships. So they give their all back to jobs or businesses while the gullible women check their phones hoping to hearing from them. "Could he be back with his wife? What am I going to do, he doesn't send any money anymore? I was starting to fall for that guy..."
What many gullible women overlook, at least initially during the early dating stages, are the self-absorbed attributes in successful men. They are consumed with getting their needs met from the start. The signs aren't easily recognized because these men tend to attract women like themselves. Selfish women are too busy focused on themselves to pay any attention to warning signs that a date might be trouble. When a woman is immature and desperate for things like: attention, money and sex, she won't think too much about how she is treated until her needs are no longer being met. "What's up with him? He use to be so nice. He gave me whatever I wanted! Now he is so mean!"
Dating rich older men is a bit different than dating broke, younger men. The men who know they can buy just about anyone or anything, expect to be pleased. So they want more for their time and money than a broken man who is just happy being with a head-turner 10.
Young women who date rich put up with things that other women wouldn't even consider. This is because most women are looking for more in a relationship besides money and gifts, but not the 10 looking for a 10. She wants cash, business, opportunities, and whatever else that rich man can afford to give her!
Since many successful men know that most people are after their cash, property, etc. they are going to be guarded and will not always come off as nice and accommodating especially when they are aware of a young woman's motives
. Whether you are rich and older or young and broke, know that whatever your intention if it isn't good, expect to be taken advantage of sooner or later.
Nicholl McGuire maintains this blog and is the author of She's Crazy (a book for battered men).
Wednesday
Sunday
Married for Material Wealth, Success? A Spiritual Perspective
Some marry for material wealth. They are greedy and manipulators.
Be careful not every man is okay with women seeking benefactors.
Think before you take the leap!
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Tuesday
Young Woman: Do You Really Want a Rich Man?
What are you willing to give up to get a rich man? If anyone ever told you that there is nothing you must sacrifice in order to be with a successful man, think again, young woman!
Whether a man has a six figure income, inherited wealth, or just manages his money well, for him to be willing to share what he has earned, he has to know that he is going to get something (more than just sex) from his partner. The kind of some "things" that will motivate him enough to generously hand over a portion of his money to his young lover/girlfriend/wife. Yet, the truth is that many successful types maintain their wealth, not because they enjoy distributing it, but because they love saving or worse hoarding it!
So along comes a young lady who thinks that she is going to swindle a man out of his money, play a game better than him, or sweet talk him into sharing his assets. She just might do well persuading him to give her a donation or two, but of course at some point, the rich man is going to catch on to her gaming and in time, he will be expecting more than a trophy for a partner and legs spread wide. Whatever that something is she just might find herself compromising her morals--that is if she has any.
Most women who landed wealthy men did something along the way to catch and keep that man. Maybe the young lady didn't have to disrobe, but she did have to show and prove that she was a worthy partner. Manipulating others, pretending to love her rich man, helping him with his projects, offering financial support to her mate for a time (even though he is rich), housing him, making meals, tending to his needs, assisting with his children, meeting the needs of older parents...there are no free lunches when it comes to some young women partnering with older, rich men.
Mature women, who have been with well-to-do gentlemen far longer than most young women who have been on this planet, will speak of a long list of things they had to put up with in order to keep their, at times, insensitive, grouchy, and downright evil partners.
1. Lie for their rich men even though they wanted to tell the truth to others about them.
2. Pretend as if their men never emotionally, physically or spiritually abused them.
3. Put off personal needs to tend to their mates endeavors.
4. Enlist the help (or otherwise take advantage) of others to save their men money and time.
5. Experience emotional turmoil because a mate wanted to have sex with other women.
6. Forget about past indiscretions if they wanted to keep the peace at home.
7. Act as if everything is mentally, physically and spiritually alright with their rich partners when they know different.
These are only seven of many things partners of rich men have undergone to maintain decades long relationships. A woman who doesn't have tough-skin, has problems with working indoors and outdoors (sometimes the home isn't going to include a maid and a gardener), has issue with lying to protect a wealthy man's reputation, money, power status, etc. is not going to do well with a rich man.
Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it and when you do, will you be able to handle it?
Nicholl McGuire
Whether a man has a six figure income, inherited wealth, or just manages his money well, for him to be willing to share what he has earned, he has to know that he is going to get something (more than just sex) from his partner. The kind of some "things" that will motivate him enough to generously hand over a portion of his money to his young lover/girlfriend/wife. Yet, the truth is that many successful types maintain their wealth, not because they enjoy distributing it, but because they love saving or worse hoarding it!
So along comes a young lady who thinks that she is going to swindle a man out of his money, play a game better than him, or sweet talk him into sharing his assets. She just might do well persuading him to give her a donation or two, but of course at some point, the rich man is going to catch on to her gaming and in time, he will be expecting more than a trophy for a partner and legs spread wide. Whatever that something is she just might find herself compromising her morals--that is if she has any.
Most women who landed wealthy men did something along the way to catch and keep that man. Maybe the young lady didn't have to disrobe, but she did have to show and prove that she was a worthy partner. Manipulating others, pretending to love her rich man, helping him with his projects, offering financial support to her mate for a time (even though he is rich), housing him, making meals, tending to his needs, assisting with his children, meeting the needs of older parents...there are no free lunches when it comes to some young women partnering with older, rich men.
Mature women, who have been with well-to-do gentlemen far longer than most young women who have been on this planet, will speak of a long list of things they had to put up with in order to keep their, at times, insensitive, grouchy, and downright evil partners.
1. Lie for their rich men even though they wanted to tell the truth to others about them.
2. Pretend as if their men never emotionally, physically or spiritually abused them.
3. Put off personal needs to tend to their mates endeavors.
4. Enlist the help (or otherwise take advantage) of others to save their men money and time.
5. Experience emotional turmoil because a mate wanted to have sex with other women.
6. Forget about past indiscretions if they wanted to keep the peace at home.
7. Act as if everything is mentally, physically and spiritually alright with their rich partners when they know different.
These are only seven of many things partners of rich men have undergone to maintain decades long relationships. A woman who doesn't have tough-skin, has problems with working indoors and outdoors (sometimes the home isn't going to include a maid and a gardener), has issue with lying to protect a wealthy man's reputation, money, power status, etc. is not going to do well with a rich man.
Be careful what you ask for, you just might get it and when you do, will you be able to handle it?
Nicholl McGuire
Sunday
He's Rich, You're Not - So What is the Problem?
Young lady, you don't anticipate any issues when you start off dating a wealthy, older gentleman that has more money than you since you assume you both are in agreement when it comes to your dating arrangement. You supply the rich man's needs (whatever those might be) and he supplies yours. But problems do arise when a successful gentleman continues to spend his cash on you while you continue to happily receive. But what might those issues be?
1. He will begin to think that you are taking advantage of him.
If too many days go by and you are not holding up your end of the bargain, the older gentleman might think you are taking his kindness for weakness. He expects that the arrangement you both agreed to will be fair. If you feel that his demands are too much, you might want to rethink your relationship or arrangement with this individual.
2. He will assume you're just what others had warned him about, "A gold-digger."
Sometimes guilty feelings have a way of catching up to people. You will know that someone is whispering something in his ear negative about you and/or the relationship by the way he treats you. To avoid verbal abuse, blaming, physical harm or anything that might be harmful to you, don't stick around if the guilt-ridden older man has made it plain that he doesn't want to be in the relationship any longer for any number of reasons whether they make sense to you or not. It is better to escape early on then take someone abusing you verbally or physically due to guilt or shame.
3. He will act negatively toward you if he should suddenly take an unexpected financial hit.
Some men just don't do well when it comes to spending, saving, or investing money. Rather than do what is right when it comes to financial planning, they will blame everyone around them hoping to feel better about their mistakes. If you know you are with someone who pretends to do well with money, but from the looks of things you know different, move on especially when he refuses to listen to sound advice.
4. He may grow weary of assisting you financially.
When you start to feel like you are a burden to him, don't ask him for anything, create some distance, and plan to create your own wealth. However, keep this in mind, that if he starts taking from you and you feel unfulfilled, don't hesitate to express how you feel about what he is and isn't doing for you.
5. He might apply pressure on you to do more with your life.
One way a rich man wants you to stay out of his pocket is to encourage you to better yourself. From suggesting you go back to college to telling you about an available position at a local company, the older man wants you to make your own money. This is actually a good thing, because you are able to learn, grow and appreciate life more because you are in control of your own destiny.
As much as a young lady would like to reason that there is nothing wrong with dating a man for his wealth, know that sooner or later his riches will become an issue particularly when you don't have your own.
Nicholl McGuire maintains and contributes to another relationship blog here.
1. He will begin to think that you are taking advantage of him.
If too many days go by and you are not holding up your end of the bargain, the older gentleman might think you are taking his kindness for weakness. He expects that the arrangement you both agreed to will be fair. If you feel that his demands are too much, you might want to rethink your relationship or arrangement with this individual.
2. He will assume you're just what others had warned him about, "A gold-digger."
Sometimes guilty feelings have a way of catching up to people. You will know that someone is whispering something in his ear negative about you and/or the relationship by the way he treats you. To avoid verbal abuse, blaming, physical harm or anything that might be harmful to you, don't stick around if the guilt-ridden older man has made it plain that he doesn't want to be in the relationship any longer for any number of reasons whether they make sense to you or not. It is better to escape early on then take someone abusing you verbally or physically due to guilt or shame.
3. He will act negatively toward you if he should suddenly take an unexpected financial hit.
Some men just don't do well when it comes to spending, saving, or investing money. Rather than do what is right when it comes to financial planning, they will blame everyone around them hoping to feel better about their mistakes. If you know you are with someone who pretends to do well with money, but from the looks of things you know different, move on especially when he refuses to listen to sound advice.
4. He may grow weary of assisting you financially.
When you start to feel like you are a burden to him, don't ask him for anything, create some distance, and plan to create your own wealth. However, keep this in mind, that if he starts taking from you and you feel unfulfilled, don't hesitate to express how you feel about what he is and isn't doing for you.
5. He might apply pressure on you to do more with your life.
One way a rich man wants you to stay out of his pocket is to encourage you to better yourself. From suggesting you go back to college to telling you about an available position at a local company, the older man wants you to make your own money. This is actually a good thing, because you are able to learn, grow and appreciate life more because you are in control of your own destiny.
As much as a young lady would like to reason that there is nothing wrong with dating a man for his wealth, know that sooner or later his riches will become an issue particularly when you don't have your own.
Nicholl McGuire maintains and contributes to another relationship blog here.
Saturday
Great Information Source on Dating the Affluent, Sugar Daddies and Others
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Young Woman You Wanted a Rich Man
So you decided to pursue a man with riches. You placed yourself at the right place at the right time whether on or off the Internet. However, now you have some thoughts about who he is and all that comes with him that aren't so positive. Well, when this sort of thing happens; take a step back. You will need to re-evaluate whether you are willing to compromise personal beliefs, make yourself available more than you want to, and other things to keep that rich man in your life.
There is more to life than money, but for some women, whether young or old, that is all they think about. "How much can I get out of him? I need this paid...what will I have to do to get him to pay for it?" These thoughts and others can create unnecessary stress. Worrying over how to get someone to do something for you can be burdensome. How much do you trust yourself to get what you want? How much do you value you? If your date is so rich, why do you feel the need to have to jump through hoops to get him to help you? When you find yourself thinking more about his riches and less about the man himself, there is a problem--a big problem. Sooner or later you will start to dislike who you are because you secretly feel the way you do about the rich man and his riches. In addition, you just might lose interest in the rich man if he starts rejecting you often. Keep in mind, he will be watching to see if you are indeed interested in him or his money like so many others do.
You may have to tweak some things about you so that you can honestly have a great relationship free of the complications that money and sex can bring. Maybe you need to get out more, pursue hobbies, take classes, or do other things to make you more interesting. Often young women become insecure, controlling, and rude when they feel their position in a rich man's life is being threatened. These issues could be avoided had these women started a relationship with the rich man for the right reasons. A rich man will also need to think about whether he wants more with his young partner in the future, because he knows that in time, there is the possibility that she might want more with him.
Being with a rich man isn't easy. For purposes of this article, rich isn't defined by how much money a man makes only, but everything else that he has as well. A rich man could have many assets, people around him he works with, talents, hobbies, a great personality, and more. The wealthy man shows no evidence of being poor in much of anything. For a young woman who doesn't have much, his lifestyle can be overwhelming and intimidating. Immature women who aren't use to dating rich men can act strangely, rebel, and have temper tantrums like children. If you or someone you know is acting in ways that is causing a rich date to act more like a father figure than a lover, than the relationship will most likely be headed toward a dead-end.
Embrace all that comes with the rich man good, bad, and ugly only if you are accepting of his ways, the people around him, and goods. However, if you know that you are losing your identity and what you stand for while dating such a person, then back off. Maybe he just isn't the answer to your prayers that you thought.
Nicholl McGuire
There is more to life than money, but for some women, whether young or old, that is all they think about. "How much can I get out of him? I need this paid...what will I have to do to get him to pay for it?" These thoughts and others can create unnecessary stress. Worrying over how to get someone to do something for you can be burdensome. How much do you trust yourself to get what you want? How much do you value you? If your date is so rich, why do you feel the need to have to jump through hoops to get him to help you? When you find yourself thinking more about his riches and less about the man himself, there is a problem--a big problem. Sooner or later you will start to dislike who you are because you secretly feel the way you do about the rich man and his riches. In addition, you just might lose interest in the rich man if he starts rejecting you often. Keep in mind, he will be watching to see if you are indeed interested in him or his money like so many others do.
You may have to tweak some things about you so that you can honestly have a great relationship free of the complications that money and sex can bring. Maybe you need to get out more, pursue hobbies, take classes, or do other things to make you more interesting. Often young women become insecure, controlling, and rude when they feel their position in a rich man's life is being threatened. These issues could be avoided had these women started a relationship with the rich man for the right reasons. A rich man will also need to think about whether he wants more with his young partner in the future, because he knows that in time, there is the possibility that she might want more with him.
Being with a rich man isn't easy. For purposes of this article, rich isn't defined by how much money a man makes only, but everything else that he has as well. A rich man could have many assets, people around him he works with, talents, hobbies, a great personality, and more. The wealthy man shows no evidence of being poor in much of anything. For a young woman who doesn't have much, his lifestyle can be overwhelming and intimidating. Immature women who aren't use to dating rich men can act strangely, rebel, and have temper tantrums like children. If you or someone you know is acting in ways that is causing a rich date to act more like a father figure than a lover, than the relationship will most likely be headed toward a dead-end.
Embrace all that comes with the rich man good, bad, and ugly only if you are accepting of his ways, the people around him, and goods. However, if you know that you are losing your identity and what you stand for while dating such a person, then back off. Maybe he just isn't the answer to your prayers that you thought.
Nicholl McGuire
Tuesday
The Inner Circle: A Certain Rich Man's Paradise
If you don't know anything about occult organizations, secret societies, or anything similar, then for some of you young single women, it's time for you to start researching, because you just might be tempted to be a part of something that you can't handle. The truly wealthy have connections to people, places and things that "the profane" simply aren't privy to.
A certain rich man's paradise, referring to the title of this work, describes any man who is able to mold, shape, and build up others in such a way that he controls the mind to do what he so desires. His inner circle are those associations he is connected to whether seen or unseen. A certain man meaning secret, rich (having wealth) and paradise (being able to have all his needs met--a heaven on earth to do as he wishes). Now how does a young woman fit in all of this? Well, she is nothing more than a vessel, sometimes willing, other times not so much. She parades her pretty, little self before men of influence in the hopes of having a typical rich girl's life only to find out there is more than meets the eye.
Now this rich man's inner circle is not one for righteous behaviors (at least behind closed doors). Sadistic men, sociopaths, criminals, whatever you would like to call immoral men who aren't much interested in the following like: chivalry (although the occasional door opening gesture will throw many off), respect, and a future with their play things. Rather, they are more concerned with acting out sick fantasies while hoping all willing or not-so willing will keep what happens in Vegas, so to speak, in Vegas.
Many of you who have experienced dating a man of influence saw the markings on his flesh, a statute or other symbol here and there such as: decorating his automobile, an interesting piece of artwork, and an odd keepsake at his home sitting on a table, wrapped around his finger, resting on his neck or elsewhere, but did you know what you were viewing? He may have shared some fascinating information about those relic, but then again, maybe not. Some of you may know a thing or two about a few rich men's secret lives, but don't really care, because what those wealthy members are giving you for the time being is all that really matters--that is until emotions get in the way and strange things start happening to you, now you care and hope that others will care too.
When your older man shook hands with certain individuals did you see anything strange? What about when you sat down with him at some function, did his conversation, more specifically a greeting, cause you to scratch your head? Once again meaningless to young women who want nothing more than to run away from home and live out their dreams on someone else's dime.
Sex, sex and more sex, it's unfortunate, but that's all many young "I hope to be a star one day" types are used for, because that is what they offer-- of course in the hopes that they will get a token for lying on their backs. We see evidence of one being used and abused when observing celebrities over a period of time (also think of reality show actors)--the symbols and signs say it all. But young, programmable women, that's right I said, programmable women are used in a rich man's inner circle for more than just sex. What makes them programmable? Hardship, resentment, bitterness, a need to escape reality, childhood abuse, and more.
Women who are talked into going places where the Average Joes and Janes don't frequent are told to do unspeakable things. You can learn more about this sort of behavior if you study mind control, beta sex kitten programming, sex slaves, etc. In time, a split mind and a split whatever else will be used in whatever way her master sees fit.
Now these things mentioned in this entry aren't for the weak-minded, the skeptical, or someone who has never sat down an interviewed a single individual who has been exposed to elitist groups/individuals/etc. But whatever you may or may not know is for you to ponder, question and hopefully keep yourself out of some trouble in the future--especially if you are a young woman thinking you can just date any old man, get what you want and be gone with the wind.
The "certain" rich man paid a price to either create an inner circle or be welcomed into it by others. He had to go through a series of tests, attend meetings, show he's loyal, trustworthy, and the like. The puppet will recruit others in the same way like a pimp on the street looking for a new hooker to add to the collection. The young woman unfamiliar with how the most wealthy of our land operate will walk into a trap if she isn't careful. Her new friends may look friendly, but at the end of the day not so much.
I recall a man who had been exposed to some elitists (whose occupations he didn't know since the group was secret), outside of America. He told me a story of having the privilege to be amongst a male witch and his coven. He described the scene, similar to the ritualistic scene he saw in the movie, "Eyes Wide Shut." I was taken aback. He had shared with me information about those of darkness. He went on to tell me that he followed the instructions of a god of darkness, he referred to as Lucifer, but also considered himself to be his own god. There were many who agreed with him in and out of the group, although some didn't participate in any rituals, their mannerisms and people connections said that they were definitely on board with dark supernatural influences that went beyond just meeting a young woman and "hooking up."
Some of you may be familiar with sexual abuse, sexual programming, and ritualistic abuse, you may have thought that what you heard or personally went through is a thing of the past. But as we speak, some nice looking young woman is making plans to meet someone online who has plans for her that go beyond just dinner and a movie. Of course, not all men are doing bizarre things when no one is looking, and besides, there really are some nice, wealthy men out there, I've met quite a few in my lifetime, but be wise anyway. Be aware of your surroundings, don't be quick to have sex, and avoid going to unfamiliar places.
Nicholl McGuire
A certain rich man's paradise, referring to the title of this work, describes any man who is able to mold, shape, and build up others in such a way that he controls the mind to do what he so desires. His inner circle are those associations he is connected to whether seen or unseen. A certain man meaning secret, rich (having wealth) and paradise (being able to have all his needs met--a heaven on earth to do as he wishes). Now how does a young woman fit in all of this? Well, she is nothing more than a vessel, sometimes willing, other times not so much. She parades her pretty, little self before men of influence in the hopes of having a typical rich girl's life only to find out there is more than meets the eye.
Now this rich man's inner circle is not one for righteous behaviors (at least behind closed doors). Sadistic men, sociopaths, criminals, whatever you would like to call immoral men who aren't much interested in the following like: chivalry (although the occasional door opening gesture will throw many off), respect, and a future with their play things. Rather, they are more concerned with acting out sick fantasies while hoping all willing or not-so willing will keep what happens in Vegas, so to speak, in Vegas.
Many of you who have experienced dating a man of influence saw the markings on his flesh, a statute or other symbol here and there such as: decorating his automobile, an interesting piece of artwork, and an odd keepsake at his home sitting on a table, wrapped around his finger, resting on his neck or elsewhere, but did you know what you were viewing? He may have shared some fascinating information about those relic, but then again, maybe not. Some of you may know a thing or two about a few rich men's secret lives, but don't really care, because what those wealthy members are giving you for the time being is all that really matters--that is until emotions get in the way and strange things start happening to you, now you care and hope that others will care too.
When your older man shook hands with certain individuals did you see anything strange? What about when you sat down with him at some function, did his conversation, more specifically a greeting, cause you to scratch your head? Once again meaningless to young women who want nothing more than to run away from home and live out their dreams on someone else's dime.
Sex, sex and more sex, it's unfortunate, but that's all many young "I hope to be a star one day" types are used for, because that is what they offer-- of course in the hopes that they will get a token for lying on their backs. We see evidence of one being used and abused when observing celebrities over a period of time (also think of reality show actors)--the symbols and signs say it all. But young, programmable women, that's right I said, programmable women are used in a rich man's inner circle for more than just sex. What makes them programmable? Hardship, resentment, bitterness, a need to escape reality, childhood abuse, and more.
Women who are talked into going places where the Average Joes and Janes don't frequent are told to do unspeakable things. You can learn more about this sort of behavior if you study mind control, beta sex kitten programming, sex slaves, etc. In time, a split mind and a split whatever else will be used in whatever way her master sees fit.
Now these things mentioned in this entry aren't for the weak-minded, the skeptical, or someone who has never sat down an interviewed a single individual who has been exposed to elitist groups/individuals/etc. But whatever you may or may not know is for you to ponder, question and hopefully keep yourself out of some trouble in the future--especially if you are a young woman thinking you can just date any old man, get what you want and be gone with the wind.
The "certain" rich man paid a price to either create an inner circle or be welcomed into it by others. He had to go through a series of tests, attend meetings, show he's loyal, trustworthy, and the like. The puppet will recruit others in the same way like a pimp on the street looking for a new hooker to add to the collection. The young woman unfamiliar with how the most wealthy of our land operate will walk into a trap if she isn't careful. Her new friends may look friendly, but at the end of the day not so much.
I recall a man who had been exposed to some elitists (whose occupations he didn't know since the group was secret), outside of America. He told me a story of having the privilege to be amongst a male witch and his coven. He described the scene, similar to the ritualistic scene he saw in the movie, "Eyes Wide Shut." I was taken aback. He had shared with me information about those of darkness. He went on to tell me that he followed the instructions of a god of darkness, he referred to as Lucifer, but also considered himself to be his own god. There were many who agreed with him in and out of the group, although some didn't participate in any rituals, their mannerisms and people connections said that they were definitely on board with dark supernatural influences that went beyond just meeting a young woman and "hooking up."
Some of you may be familiar with sexual abuse, sexual programming, and ritualistic abuse, you may have thought that what you heard or personally went through is a thing of the past. But as we speak, some nice looking young woman is making plans to meet someone online who has plans for her that go beyond just dinner and a movie. Of course, not all men are doing bizarre things when no one is looking, and besides, there really are some nice, wealthy men out there, I've met quite a few in my lifetime, but be wise anyway. Be aware of your surroundings, don't be quick to have sex, and avoid going to unfamiliar places.
Nicholl McGuire
Sunday
Rich Man: Is Your Young Partner Friend or Foe?
When we are in relationships we are vulnerable--suceptible to being hurt, so we try real hard to avoid pain by ignoring all signs that might upset us when dating others. We don't see things that others outside of our relationship see. We think we know something about that person we love when in all actuality we may not. Some partners are troubled, procrastinators, mamipulators, and just plain rude. A rich man who is desperate to be with someone who loves him for him and not so much for what he has, is going to want to know whether his possible spouse one day will be his best friend or worse foe. Relatives and friends in the rich man's inner circle might alert him to things regarding his choice in a mate. But what should the mature man be looking out for when it comes to partnering with a young woman?
Can I trust her?
He may put her through some tests. He may leave his wallet out on purpose with a wad of cash sticking out to see if she will steal it. He may tell her information that he knows isn't confidential but he will act like it just to see if she will go back and tell others about it. Can he trust his potential mate? After a series of tests, she just might pass, but he isn't completely convinced just yet.
Does she love me?
Does she really love him like she claims? There may be many young women that a rich man can choose from, but can he love that One who may one day be the mother of his children. Is her love sincerely for him or for his lifestyle or both? The rich man may also want to know if the young woman loves people or can at least get along with them. If she is often in conflict with people and is hard to comprehend when she talks about love, the mature man may determine that the young woman may have a heart as cold as ice and will no longer bother with her. No man wants to keep hearing stories about how a woman hates this and hates that.
Is she independent ?
During the dating phase, the rich man will want to find out exactly how much time and money he will have to invest in this woman to keep him and her happy, but he doesn't want to do everything for her. Is she the independent type? If the young woman shows signs that she wants to learn more about something she enjoys, start a business, attend college, get a great job, and more, then the rich man may not have to worry over his future mate wanting to live exclusively off his wealth.
Is she mentally stable?
Not every young, nice-looking woman has it altogether in her mind. Mentally disturbed women can be a challenge to live with--just ask anyone who has had to care for a medicated spouse or one whose mind is leaving him or her. The insane woman will mess things up like the household, finances, friendships, business partnerships--you name it! Sometimes a man can tell whether a woman is crazy or going crazy simply by the way she walks, talks and dresses, but there are those women that one can't see right away whether they are stable or unstable. Therefore, if the rich man is wise, he will observe her for a time while asking personal questions that will cause the young woman to critically think about her life, current events, relationship, future, etc. The wise rich man will ponder on her answers to determine whether this woman is in fact someone he can stand coversing with at great length. He will also meet her family and study them for signs of instability while listening to any stories that sound crazy. There is an old adage that goes something like this, "The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree." Keep that in mind!
Now there are other things that intelligent rich men will seek in a young woman who they wouldn't mind carrying on their arms such as: who she knows, where she works and how long has she been there, is she responsible, and does she have a faith, great support system, education, etc. If a woman is all show but no go, a rich man will end any partnership with her as soon as possible (for instance, like stop calling her) because the less she knows about him the better. He doesn't want to risk his reputation connecting with an insane, insecure, dependent, unloving, pretty woman.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Laboring to Love Myself and other books.
Can I trust her?
He may put her through some tests. He may leave his wallet out on purpose with a wad of cash sticking out to see if she will steal it. He may tell her information that he knows isn't confidential but he will act like it just to see if she will go back and tell others about it. Can he trust his potential mate? After a series of tests, she just might pass, but he isn't completely convinced just yet.
Does she love me?
Does she really love him like she claims? There may be many young women that a rich man can choose from, but can he love that One who may one day be the mother of his children. Is her love sincerely for him or for his lifestyle or both? The rich man may also want to know if the young woman loves people or can at least get along with them. If she is often in conflict with people and is hard to comprehend when she talks about love, the mature man may determine that the young woman may have a heart as cold as ice and will no longer bother with her. No man wants to keep hearing stories about how a woman hates this and hates that.
Is she independent ?
During the dating phase, the rich man will want to find out exactly how much time and money he will have to invest in this woman to keep him and her happy, but he doesn't want to do everything for her. Is she the independent type? If the young woman shows signs that she wants to learn more about something she enjoys, start a business, attend college, get a great job, and more, then the rich man may not have to worry over his future mate wanting to live exclusively off his wealth.
Is she mentally stable?
Not every young, nice-looking woman has it altogether in her mind. Mentally disturbed women can be a challenge to live with--just ask anyone who has had to care for a medicated spouse or one whose mind is leaving him or her. The insane woman will mess things up like the household, finances, friendships, business partnerships--you name it! Sometimes a man can tell whether a woman is crazy or going crazy simply by the way she walks, talks and dresses, but there are those women that one can't see right away whether they are stable or unstable. Therefore, if the rich man is wise, he will observe her for a time while asking personal questions that will cause the young woman to critically think about her life, current events, relationship, future, etc. The wise rich man will ponder on her answers to determine whether this woman is in fact someone he can stand coversing with at great length. He will also meet her family and study them for signs of instability while listening to any stories that sound crazy. There is an old adage that goes something like this, "The apple doesn't fall too far from the tree." Keep that in mind!
Now there are other things that intelligent rich men will seek in a young woman who they wouldn't mind carrying on their arms such as: who she knows, where she works and how long has she been there, is she responsible, and does she have a faith, great support system, education, etc. If a woman is all show but no go, a rich man will end any partnership with her as soon as possible (for instance, like stop calling her) because the less she knows about him the better. He doesn't want to risk his reputation connecting with an insane, insecure, dependent, unloving, pretty woman.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Laboring to Love Myself and other books.
Thursday
When She Loses Interest in the Rich Older Man
From calling him names during an argument to having fits in public about what her rich older boyfriend does and doesn't do for her, the young woman appears to lack common sense and self-control when in a relationship with a rich older man. But does she have good reason to act so ugly? Maybe not, but this young woman in the example is definitely losing interest and respect for her older partner, but why?
He doesn't keep up his appearance or health.
When they first started dating, both appeared very attractive to one another, but over time people get comfortable with one another, and before long they let themselves go. The younger woman starts seeing those signs of aging up close and personal on her partner and starts to think about things that aren't positive or uplifting especially if he isn't a very nice person to her. In time, her disappointments start coming out in her conversation sometimes as suggestions and other times as insults. "Why can't you take Viagra, old man! Why do I put up with you when I can get a younger guy who looks far better? Why talk about me and what I do, what about you?" A disgruntled young woman who isn't happy with her partner can be verbally abusive to the point where an older man will want to do some things to her that he might regret. Save yourself future arguments, take care of mind, body and spirit on a daily basis! The truth hurts, so if an older man chooses to date a younger woman he has to work harder on his appearance a little more than he would if he were with a woman his own age.
He was no different than an unwise, irresponsible young man.
Most younger women who date older men do it because they want to try something different, heard some good things about dating older men, and just naturally want someone older for any number of reasons. Women in their 20s know that many men in their age group are immature, not knowledgeable when it comes to making a woman happy, and have no short or long term goals for career, family, lifestyle, and more. Oftentimes, young men are given the pass, so to speak, for their lack of wealth and foolish behaviors. But a mature man is held up to higher standards by both young and older women as well as observant males in his girlfriend's family, because "he should know better...he has lived on this earth long enough...he should have made something with his life at his age," some say. When an older man has dropped the ball when it comes to caring for his young partner and seeing to it that she wants for nothing, the young woman becomes difficult to converse or live with leaving the rich older man feeling frustrated and ready to end the relationship.
He has too many responsibilities and little time for her.
From phone calls to meetings, the rich older man is always needed by someone or some group. When he spends more time talking to people outside the home than in the home, he will not be able to keep a young, active woman around. She will grow weary of having to adjust her schedule because of his "prior engagements." The woman will start acting insecure and jealous when she sees her man here, there and everywhere with other attractive young and older women. Some young women need to be tended to because they don't have quite enough experience being alone and dependent on self. So she will battle for your attention if you aren't giving her any in more ways than just walking around without any panties on.
He says one thing, but does another.
Most women in relationships stay with their partners because somewhere down the line, their men promised them something. But when a man doesn't follow through with his promises, there will be hell to pay sooner or later. "So you said you wanted to marry me, why didn't you? You said you wanted children, why haven't we had any? You said that you would take me to Hawaii, why not? You told me that you would introduce me to your family, why don't you bring me around them?" If one ignores a disgruntled young woman's questions, makes excuses, or gets angry about what she is asking, then expect her to be unhappy, a nag, and ready to rid herself of someone who can't keep his promises.
Before dating any young woman, understand that they are no different than an older woman when it comes to losing interest in you. A sweet woman can become sour quickly when you expect her to do things that you know you aren't doing. So keep your appearance and health up to par, act mature, balance your time between job and relationship, and most of all keep your promises!
Nicholl McGuire
He doesn't keep up his appearance or health.
When they first started dating, both appeared very attractive to one another, but over time people get comfortable with one another, and before long they let themselves go. The younger woman starts seeing those signs of aging up close and personal on her partner and starts to think about things that aren't positive or uplifting especially if he isn't a very nice person to her. In time, her disappointments start coming out in her conversation sometimes as suggestions and other times as insults. "Why can't you take Viagra, old man! Why do I put up with you when I can get a younger guy who looks far better? Why talk about me and what I do, what about you?" A disgruntled young woman who isn't happy with her partner can be verbally abusive to the point where an older man will want to do some things to her that he might regret. Save yourself future arguments, take care of mind, body and spirit on a daily basis! The truth hurts, so if an older man chooses to date a younger woman he has to work harder on his appearance a little more than he would if he were with a woman his own age.
He was no different than an unwise, irresponsible young man.
Most younger women who date older men do it because they want to try something different, heard some good things about dating older men, and just naturally want someone older for any number of reasons. Women in their 20s know that many men in their age group are immature, not knowledgeable when it comes to making a woman happy, and have no short or long term goals for career, family, lifestyle, and more. Oftentimes, young men are given the pass, so to speak, for their lack of wealth and foolish behaviors. But a mature man is held up to higher standards by both young and older women as well as observant males in his girlfriend's family, because "he should know better...he has lived on this earth long enough...he should have made something with his life at his age," some say. When an older man has dropped the ball when it comes to caring for his young partner and seeing to it that she wants for nothing, the young woman becomes difficult to converse or live with leaving the rich older man feeling frustrated and ready to end the relationship.
He has too many responsibilities and little time for her.
From phone calls to meetings, the rich older man is always needed by someone or some group. When he spends more time talking to people outside the home than in the home, he will not be able to keep a young, active woman around. She will grow weary of having to adjust her schedule because of his "prior engagements." The woman will start acting insecure and jealous when she sees her man here, there and everywhere with other attractive young and older women. Some young women need to be tended to because they don't have quite enough experience being alone and dependent on self. So she will battle for your attention if you aren't giving her any in more ways than just walking around without any panties on.
He says one thing, but does another.
Most women in relationships stay with their partners because somewhere down the line, their men promised them something. But when a man doesn't follow through with his promises, there will be hell to pay sooner or later. "So you said you wanted to marry me, why didn't you? You said you wanted children, why haven't we had any? You said that you would take me to Hawaii, why not? You told me that you would introduce me to your family, why don't you bring me around them?" If one ignores a disgruntled young woman's questions, makes excuses, or gets angry about what she is asking, then expect her to be unhappy, a nag, and ready to rid herself of someone who can't keep his promises.
Before dating any young woman, understand that they are no different than an older woman when it comes to losing interest in you. A sweet woman can become sour quickly when you expect her to do things that you know you aren't doing. So keep your appearance and health up to par, act mature, balance your time between job and relationship, and most of all keep your promises!
Nicholl McGuire
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