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Monday
In and Out of Love with Someone Older
It is a great feeling when you finally meet someone you are compatible with. The individual is mature, attractive, wealthy, and enjoys your company. You are happy with your selection and look forward to the future. Of course, there are those issues that come up as you learn more about a lover--the kind of things that will stop the butterflies from fluttering in your stomach. As a young person, you will discover that as much as you would like to remain in a bubble concerning the mature person you are dating, there will be those not-so appealing things about him or her that will burst your bubble.
Being in love with someone older doesn't have to be one of those things that stops, feelings for someone can go on and on if you let them. If your focus is on the positive and your partner is willing to remain faithful to you, you can continue to be in love. When one is kind and respectful to his or her partner and the actions are reciprocated, then there are no worries about the relationship. But those people in relationships that tend to have many concerns about their age gap partnership is due to the way they are being treated by their mates. If a partner is rude, impatient, unkind, and frugal, then there isn't any wonder why things aren't working out.
To be in love with anyone, not just someone a decade or two older, one must be willing to do the kind of things that will keep a partner interested in being with him or her and vice versa. Yet, for some mature people, they simply don't have the energy or time to devote to another human being after spending years of dating and being married to one or more than a few. As a result, some will not stay interested in being with a young partner for long. Those that are burnt out with relationships and all that comes with them, find them meaningless, temporary, sex tiring, conversation mundane, and so on. It doesn't matter how young, nice or compatible, when a mature person isn't interested in being in a relationship there will be enough signs to let you know. With such a negative view when it comes to settling down with yet another partner, an older person (or young person) experiencing such feelings is far from being in love. If anything, he or she should get out of the relationship as soon as possible before causing anymore damage.
Selfish, negative people steal joy. They don't permit others to love in the way they so desire. They can be difficult, angry people who often disagree, fault-find, and hate various people, places and things for any number of reasons. Unfortunately, the older some people get, the worse they can be. This is why some mature men and women are unable to keep young partners (or those the same age), because they are uncomfortable with the aging process, unhappy with life decisions, and bitter because they didn't accomplish goals over the years. They don't find getting older a good experience especially when a young person is able to remember more things than they, have the patience for new technology, and enjoy learning new things. Some can be quite jealous of young people because they have plenty of time to get things right, so they assume.
Once it is discovered that there are far too many differences in personalities and years, the couple will eventually separate. Whatever drew them together, no longer is strong enough to keep them together.
The process of breaking up might be difficult at first for the older as well as young person, but in time both will be content with knowing they made a good decision. It is never a good idea to stick it out with someone you know you are no longer in love, like or lust with.
Nicholl McGuire
Being in love with someone older doesn't have to be one of those things that stops, feelings for someone can go on and on if you let them. If your focus is on the positive and your partner is willing to remain faithful to you, you can continue to be in love. When one is kind and respectful to his or her partner and the actions are reciprocated, then there are no worries about the relationship. But those people in relationships that tend to have many concerns about their age gap partnership is due to the way they are being treated by their mates. If a partner is rude, impatient, unkind, and frugal, then there isn't any wonder why things aren't working out.
To be in love with anyone, not just someone a decade or two older, one must be willing to do the kind of things that will keep a partner interested in being with him or her and vice versa. Yet, for some mature people, they simply don't have the energy or time to devote to another human being after spending years of dating and being married to one or more than a few. As a result, some will not stay interested in being with a young partner for long. Those that are burnt out with relationships and all that comes with them, find them meaningless, temporary, sex tiring, conversation mundane, and so on. It doesn't matter how young, nice or compatible, when a mature person isn't interested in being in a relationship there will be enough signs to let you know. With such a negative view when it comes to settling down with yet another partner, an older person (or young person) experiencing such feelings is far from being in love. If anything, he or she should get out of the relationship as soon as possible before causing anymore damage.
Selfish, negative people steal joy. They don't permit others to love in the way they so desire. They can be difficult, angry people who often disagree, fault-find, and hate various people, places and things for any number of reasons. Unfortunately, the older some people get, the worse they can be. This is why some mature men and women are unable to keep young partners (or those the same age), because they are uncomfortable with the aging process, unhappy with life decisions, and bitter because they didn't accomplish goals over the years. They don't find getting older a good experience especially when a young person is able to remember more things than they, have the patience for new technology, and enjoy learning new things. Some can be quite jealous of young people because they have plenty of time to get things right, so they assume.
Once it is discovered that there are far too many differences in personalities and years, the couple will eventually separate. Whatever drew them together, no longer is strong enough to keep them together.
The process of breaking up might be difficult at first for the older as well as young person, but in time both will be content with knowing they made a good decision. It is never a good idea to stick it out with someone you know you are no longer in love, like or lust with.
Nicholl McGuire
Saturday
Trying to Fit In to the Point of Deceiving Your Date?
"Be yourself!" You heard this phrase from people who give you advice on how to act around certain individuals and groups. However, for the older man and younger woman dating one another, it can be easier said than done.
I have been the one who was trying to act older at one point to impress a man back in my early twenties, but I was also on the receiving end when an older man was trying to act younger than what he was. Both of us were nothing more than deceiving one another, at least for awhile; however eventually, we were found out! He says, "I enjoy traveling..." but he doesn't go anywhere on his off time. She says, "I love going to jazz concerts..." and she has only been to one in her life-time. Do you see the false fronts?
Someone is going to have a bad day while finding out the truth and that is when the cover is blown! A younger woman finds out the truth about the older man, so, "You really don't do much at all!?" The older man finds out the truth about the younger woman, "You aren't as active as I thought! Heck, you barely have sex!?" Neither is who they claim to be! He may have initially thought, "She acts quite mature for her age..." On the other hand, she thinks, "He is quite fun and youthful!" After spending a little time with one another, they quickly learn there are problems and lots of them. "You are just a daddy's girl looking for a sugar daddy, huh!?" He yells. "Well, what about you? You just want a daughter to care for you in your old age!"
What both the older man and younger woman must remember is trying to fit in with one another by talking or acting a certain way will not win one another over for long. Unless you are a skilled actor or actress who can keep your role up all day and everyday, it is only a matter of time that you will slip up.
The old statement, "Be yourself," means just that! Don't act any different than you do on a daily basis. State what you like to do, but inform your date what you are presently doing with your life. If you are embarrassed about a mediocre life, then start doing something to make it more interesting, but be genuine. If you know that you tend to act quite immature, work on your short-comings. Please note younger women, some personal issues will only go away with time and experience and an older man must be patient with you.
As much as we want to belong to someone that fits us like a hand in a glove, we must remember that no such person exists. They may come close, but like hats and gloves, one size doesn't fit all.
Nicholl McGuire
Author of Too Much Too Soon Internet Dating Blues
I have been the one who was trying to act older at one point to impress a man back in my early twenties, but I was also on the receiving end when an older man was trying to act younger than what he was. Both of us were nothing more than deceiving one another, at least for awhile; however eventually, we were found out! He says, "I enjoy traveling..." but he doesn't go anywhere on his off time. She says, "I love going to jazz concerts..." and she has only been to one in her life-time. Do you see the false fronts?
Someone is going to have a bad day while finding out the truth and that is when the cover is blown! A younger woman finds out the truth about the older man, so, "You really don't do much at all!?" The older man finds out the truth about the younger woman, "You aren't as active as I thought! Heck, you barely have sex!?" Neither is who they claim to be! He may have initially thought, "She acts quite mature for her age..." On the other hand, she thinks, "He is quite fun and youthful!" After spending a little time with one another, they quickly learn there are problems and lots of them. "You are just a daddy's girl looking for a sugar daddy, huh!?" He yells. "Well, what about you? You just want a daughter to care for you in your old age!"
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The old statement, "Be yourself," means just that! Don't act any different than you do on a daily basis. State what you like to do, but inform your date what you are presently doing with your life. If you are embarrassed about a mediocre life, then start doing something to make it more interesting, but be genuine. If you know that you tend to act quite immature, work on your short-comings. Please note younger women, some personal issues will only go away with time and experience and an older man must be patient with you.
As much as we want to belong to someone that fits us like a hand in a glove, we must remember that no such person exists. They may come close, but like hats and gloves, one size doesn't fit all.
Nicholl McGuire
Author of Too Much Too Soon Internet Dating Blues
Wednesday
Younger Women Dating Older Men - Why May-December Relationships Are Doing So Well These Days
Women in their 20s are becoming very frustrated these days about the current dating scene and there are many reasons for this. One reason is men in their 20s have become very immature compared to how they used to be 20 to 50 years ago. Back then, men were not only more romantic but also concentrated their efforts on courting one woman. For instance, the men used to walk up to a woman's doorstep with a nice bouquet of roses in one hand and chocolates and the other. Don't get me wrong, I'm not focusing on material gifts here, but more so on the effort that man used to give when they were interested in a woman. These days young men just skip the roses and focus all of their efforts into trying to get women in bed. They don't want a relationship, and all they care for is to try to get as much short-term pleasure out of these dates as possible. In other words, men in this age group have become very shallow and self-serving.
Younger women dating older men find that these men are much more mature than the younger guys and know how to treat a lady right. Right off the bat older men are much more caring and communicative on the date. They will start by asking a woman to tell them anything about herself. They want to know what her goals and dreams are, and they will be attentive enough to try to help in any way they can. If you ask any young woman, they will say that communication is the key to keeping a relationship strong. Older men understand this also because they have already been through their immature and selfish years and truly understand how special a monogamous relationship really is.
In a May-December relationship the older man not only can keep up with the younger women in bed, but can also hold his own as far as doing the chores around the house, paying bills and taking care of children. Not only are these kinds of relationships on the rise, but they will be here to stay for a long time.
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Older Dating - The Vast Options of Dating Older People
When it comes to dating for old people, the choices are not restricted and narrow now. In fact, the options are really vast and many. Unlike old days where people preferred to stay single if they hadn’t found their mate after a certain point, things are changing and more people are opening up to the idea of older dating.
For starters, the internet is the best place to search for that person you have been looking for. If you are tired of the people in your life and want to meet someone new and exciting, then the internet is the right answer. You can search through databases of you entire city, state or even go international for that matter. In fact, the entire world is offered to you at your finger tips. You just need to look in the right places and you are bound to find someone interesting.
There are a couple of pointers that you may want to keep in mind for internet dating. Just like how simple it is for you to find a date, it is equally simple for other miscreants to abuse it. There are a lot of fake profiles out there and you need to apply caution before you decide to go out with one. Make sure that you speak to the person beforehand and only then decide to meet them. By speaking, it is not sending tweets or SMSs to one another, but an actual voice conversation. If possible, even try video chat before you go out for that date.
The last resort if you are not technologically inclined is to seek professional help. Go out and get someone to search that person on your behalf. There are many dating services all over the city that are waiting to help you out for a fee. The best way to go about this is to actually find someone who has used these services to tell you whether they are good. In this case, word of mouth is probably the best advice you can rely on.
Finally, don’t lose hope. There is no such thing as an upper limit when it comes to dating. There are people who were too busy building their career to worry about dating. It is only later on in their life they start looking, which might probably be your case too. In the end, you are bound to get the person that will complete your life, or at least show a good time around.
Older dating is on an up rise with the invention of a multitude of sites geared towards mature dating. Many older people have stayed away from online dating because it is typically geared towards twenty and thirty somethings but in the last five years there have been many sites that are dedicated to finding true love for a more mature audience. If you fit into this category and you’re searching for true love and companionship, take some time and check out a few older dating matches. These sites can lead you on the journey to finding true love regardless of your age.
John Smithe
John is an experienced writer on seeking dating and relationships. He has been writing for many years and has had many articles published. Some of John's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature daters, relationships, and older dating with matchmaking.Older Dating
For starters, the internet is the best place to search for that person you have been looking for. If you are tired of the people in your life and want to meet someone new and exciting, then the internet is the right answer. You can search through databases of you entire city, state or even go international for that matter. In fact, the entire world is offered to you at your finger tips. You just need to look in the right places and you are bound to find someone interesting.
There are a couple of pointers that you may want to keep in mind for internet dating. Just like how simple it is for you to find a date, it is equally simple for other miscreants to abuse it. There are a lot of fake profiles out there and you need to apply caution before you decide to go out with one. Make sure that you speak to the person beforehand and only then decide to meet them. By speaking, it is not sending tweets or SMSs to one another, but an actual voice conversation. If possible, even try video chat before you go out for that date.
The last resort if you are not technologically inclined is to seek professional help. Go out and get someone to search that person on your behalf. There are many dating services all over the city that are waiting to help you out for a fee. The best way to go about this is to actually find someone who has used these services to tell you whether they are good. In this case, word of mouth is probably the best advice you can rely on.
Finally, don’t lose hope. There is no such thing as an upper limit when it comes to dating. There are people who were too busy building their career to worry about dating. It is only later on in their life they start looking, which might probably be your case too. In the end, you are bound to get the person that will complete your life, or at least show a good time around.
Older dating is on an up rise with the invention of a multitude of sites geared towards mature dating. Many older people have stayed away from online dating because it is typically geared towards twenty and thirty somethings but in the last five years there have been many sites that are dedicated to finding true love for a more mature audience. If you fit into this category and you’re searching for true love and companionship, take some time and check out a few older dating matches. These sites can lead you on the journey to finding true love regardless of your age.
John Smithe
John is an experienced writer on seeking dating and relationships. He has been writing for many years and has had many articles published. Some of John's most favorite topics to write on include single professionals, mature daters, relationships, and older dating with matchmaking.Older Dating
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