When will some young and old women learn?
The pretty boy (or once pretty boy) has been well-trained by other
attractive individuals on how to benefit from those men and women who aren’t as appealing as
he. The strategy: to use his handsome appearance to get what
he wants. The unattractive targets need not be concerned about your wants just be glad you were able to catch his eye. Terrible attitude the pretty boy has, but with such good looks why be concerned with attitude? In his eyes, you should be d@mn grateful to even be in the same room with him!
When you come from a family of beautiful and handsome men and women, most likely those in the
group have repeatedly encouraged you and other family members to connect with someone who is
just as attractive if not more. In so many ways, they tell you, "Don't bring any ugly people around here!" So older might fall under the ugly category if you don't keep your looks up. So shallow conceited people are, but you don't have to date/sex/marry them!
Let’s
face it, stunning men and women don’t come around often, and when they do,
oftentimes most not-so appealing people will want to talk, date, or have a fling with them.
This is why some older men don't care if a hottie has 10 boyfriends in addition to him, all some gentlemen care about is how "fine," "sexy" or "young" she is and when can they have sex. Mature men know it isn't often that a young, attractive person comes their way, so when they do, "What do you like?" Is one of many charming questions they might ask in attempt to get their needs met too.
If that handsome man, who knows he is fine, shows a little interest in someone who isn’t attractive, the individual receiving the attention thinks that he or she is on
top of the world. Desperation tends to
come out with the dare I say it, ugly person to stay in that attractive
person’s radar because he or she knows that there are many others they could be
with instead of him or her.
Unattractive people with low self-esteem tend to put far more into
relationships with pretty boys than most.
They even stick
around well past the expiration date.
They know a relationship is unfulfilling, yet they try to make things
work, because, "Well, he is so good-looking!"
They know they are gorgeous,
have more opportunities, etc., yet they will go the distance with pretty boys if they can stand the pain of cheating, lying, power and control remaining with them.
Pretty boys who don't know they are jaw-dropping handsome tend to pick partners who may not even come close to appealing, but are "nice" or "easy to talk to."
Of course, there is more than meets the eye in some of these
relationships, but when exactly do you know that a pretty boy is merely putting
on an act? You don't unless you pay attention to signs that his mind is everywhere but on you. He knows that he isn’t that
into you, he thinks he might grow to love you, but the reality this might
happen is dismal.
A selfish, pretty boy always has
it in the back of his mind, "I can do better. Why do I bother with this ugly, over weight, unattractive, or crazy
woman?" The reason who puts up with whoever or whatever in the meantime is because he is getting one or many of his most important needs met: house, car, bills paid, clothes bought, travel, gifts, etc.
The pretty boys' women have money,
a generous spirit, connections, and good credit while the women who might
be equally beautiful don’t have as much.
Anyone with good sense knows you go where the opportunity is. No matter how sexy someone looks, if he or
she can’t keep a roof over his or her head, food in the fridge, and money in
his or her pocket, then that person isn't worth anyone's time especially for the pretty boy! Many pretty boys are also mama's boys and most likely were told to look your best and you will get the best! Shallow-thinking moms raise shallow-thinking sons.
Pretty boys are use to being cared for and are typically the
favorite in the family. If they have used
their handsomeness to get over on family and ahead in life, a less attractive
partner will need to be aware that he will use his beautiful eyes, dashing
smile, fit build, and charming words to control her too. He knows that his woman feels insecure, threatened,
and might even lose her cool around competition, so if he does have women
friends or lovers, he is going to be careful to keep them on the down low. He doesn’t want to mess up the money, gifts
and other things he might be getting from his unattractive woman.
Some older men still think they are pretty boys even when beauty has long faded due to the gaining process and not taking good care of themselves over decades. They may have received many compliments in
their youth, but now that they are older, they simply aren’t nice to view
especially for a long period of time or on a daily basis. This is why their relationships with younger companions don't last over time.
Older men who think they still got it are
often frustrated when they see the truth for what it is. There are far better looking men who are
working hard to take care of themselves.
They are turning heads and find it easy to meet women. But the unattractive men, who falsely believe
they still got it, learn the hard way.
Most women, especially young ones, are really not interested in them
unless money, security, power and fame are involved.
Many selfish women look to the Internet to solve their problems with meeting "the right men." It is then that the playing starts. Both the attractive as well as the
unattractive older men, who falsely believe they are something that they are not, sometimes operate
like gold-diggers hoping to obtain not only sex, but fun times they don’t have
to pay for with women--think: the attractive Dine and Dash type. Meanwhile,
these sex starved, desperate women will gladly welcome them not knowing they
are being played even before these men’s dating profiles are fully completed.
Best advice: Don't date for looks or for money!