A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
Thursday
Wednesday
Age Gap Dating - When is it a Good Time to Stick with Your Own Age?
You will know when it is a better to remain friendly with someone older or younger when your mind and body are in agreement. There is just no shaking that feeling that says, "Keep away from them!"
Many young women may have started off talking about how great their older dates were when things were still new, but in time they begin to realize why the older women wouldn't even look twice at them. There is always a not-so public reason why an older man is interested in a younger woman and it isn't always good.
Some older men regret meeting their younger dates after a time of spending time with them. They too come to the realization why the young women prefer dating them; rather than younger, more attractive looking men. From wanting a place to stay to needing someone in their lives that will make them feel special, some young women's demands are too much to bear for older guys set in their ways.
To date most individuals who are older men or younger ladies requires patience, generosity, sex, and kindness. Young women are typically more active and talk more than older women. They also are still trying to figure their lives out so you never know what a day might bring. Older men tend to have their share of responsibilities as well as health issues, so you never know when those sweet guys will turn sour.
If you know that the idea of being with someone with a significant age gap is going to be a bit of a burden for you, then rather talk yourself into dating the person or allowing him or her to persuade you to continue to date, just say, "No." When you are not sold out on an idea, it is always best to avoid it. Otherwise, you will find yourself one day playing the blame game. Meanwhile, the only one to blame will be yourself for thinking you wanted something that you really didn't from the start.
Nicholl McGuire wrote Laboring to Love Myself, Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate and other books.
Many young women may have started off talking about how great their older dates were when things were still new, but in time they begin to realize why the older women wouldn't even look twice at them. There is always a not-so public reason why an older man is interested in a younger woman and it isn't always good.
Some older men regret meeting their younger dates after a time of spending time with them. They too come to the realization why the young women prefer dating them; rather than younger, more attractive looking men. From wanting a place to stay to needing someone in their lives that will make them feel special, some young women's demands are too much to bear for older guys set in their ways.
To date most individuals who are older men or younger ladies requires patience, generosity, sex, and kindness. Young women are typically more active and talk more than older women. They also are still trying to figure their lives out so you never know what a day might bring. Older men tend to have their share of responsibilities as well as health issues, so you never know when those sweet guys will turn sour.
If you know that the idea of being with someone with a significant age gap is going to be a bit of a burden for you, then rather talk yourself into dating the person or allowing him or her to persuade you to continue to date, just say, "No." When you are not sold out on an idea, it is always best to avoid it. Otherwise, you will find yourself one day playing the blame game. Meanwhile, the only one to blame will be yourself for thinking you wanted something that you really didn't from the start.
Nicholl McGuire wrote Laboring to Love Myself, Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate and other books.
Tuesday
Monday
Bill Cosby Jokes About Drugging Girls with "Spanish Fly" In 1969 Comedy ...
Think twice young ladies before you let a pushy, older men pour your drinks.
Married Men will be Home for the Holidays
For the young women hoping that the married man will be with them during the holidays, think again! If he does come around, he would have told a fantastic lie to relatives in order to get out of the home during the evening or late at night which he just might avoid being that family holidays is a time for togetherness. If you see the married man before or during a holiday, it will be between his errand running and he will obviously look stressed and will be in a rush. Wives may be busy, but not too busy to notice that something is a bit strange about their spouses.
These other women await for their unavailable men's return to their beds in the hopes that things will get back to the way they were. They hope the gifts of money, time and affection will continue as usual. However, the holidays have a way of changing some men's hearts, minds and bank accounts when it comes to their other women. No sense in acting like a crazed woman if the married man says, "Listen, I really don't think we should keep seeing each other. I don't think it is a good idea..."
While these young women had hoped for babies to their new lovers, serious relationships or their older men to divorce their wives, there will be an unexplained energy in the air, the kind that includes prayers and curses coming their way depending on the kind of men these women decided to connect with. As much as men and women reason that all is okay despite saying wedding vows before a supernatural God, the reality is, it isn't--it really isn't. Consider the countless media stories of scorned wives and lovers going off the deep end as a result of being cheated on and lied to. Until a man is divorced, he shouldn't be leading any woman on, making her believe that he is ready to move on with his life when it is obvious, he is not. So many men manipulate women then wonder why these sweet, beautiful young woman turn into crazy, obsessed b*tches, don't wonder, get out while you still have a mind and body intact as well as your freedom. See blog on dating and domestic violence as well as other abuses http://laboringtoloveanabusivemate.blogspot.com
Women, who have been in relationships with the following types of unavailable men such as: married men, married abused men, abusive married men, or are involved with married Sugar Daddies, know what it feels like when it seems like one's world is mysteriously getting worse fooling around with these backslidden Christian oath takers who stood before a group of people to declare their love for wives knowing full well they never loved God, his church or the wives they are committed to!
From health to finances, the young woman has more problems to solve while the unavailable man becomes less and less in their lives until he is no more! Babies born in these relationships never fully get to know their fathers. They are often forgotten about sooner or later, because the married man has to keep his mess away from his supposedly happy home.
One or both know when an affair is coming to an end when usually the married man is not acting as kind, patient and generous like he once was. He may find excuses not to come around his lover anymore or blatantly express his feelings of guilt, resentment, and anger toward wife and lover(s).
To eliminate some of the personal drama, it would make sense for any woman or man in a troubled relationship like this to end it, but there is always that but...or butt that makes things difficult. If this describes your situation, one way of relieving some of the tension is to keep away from all things that tempt you to want to go back to a lover. If her smile attracts you, rid yourself of images on and offline that remind you of her. If seeing him at a nearby workplace makes you want him, then avoid watching him and going to that place whenever possible. If she is one of your Facebook friends, a part of a dating network, a co-worker, or is in or around your home, or lives nearby, you will need to stop making an effort to talk and be with this young lady.
People ignore one another everyday and when you are determined to get on with your life and rid yourself of past mistakes, you don't keep inviting them back into your world. If a baby is involved, you have no choice but to do your part to help the young woman and your baby. If you are a married father reading this, you most likely will have to share this information with your spouse if the young woman plans on letting the world know about the baby via the court system, media, or confronting your wife and other relatives.
Most young women and older married men find each other as a source of escape from troubled marriages and mundane lifestyles. It was a process to get together and it will be a process to break up, but it can be done. Who wants to keep waiting by the phone for a call all hours of the day and night or worry over whether he or she is sleeping with someone else, stressed about money and gifts, or concerned that someone with a taste for blood just might find out about the relationship?
A man or woman who doesn't want to have to deal with the adrenaline rush of keeping secrets and telling lies during what is supposed to be a happy season, will stay home at least for a time. Having an affair is work. Telling lies and trying to keep up with those lies is exhausting. Remembering to address the needs of a wife, tend to work responsibilities, and do for children and other relatives is hard work. Then there is that young woman who thinks to herself, "What on earth did I get myself into?" Free yourself.
Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire
These other women await for their unavailable men's return to their beds in the hopes that things will get back to the way they were. They hope the gifts of money, time and affection will continue as usual. However, the holidays have a way of changing some men's hearts, minds and bank accounts when it comes to their other women. No sense in acting like a crazed woman if the married man says, "Listen, I really don't think we should keep seeing each other. I don't think it is a good idea..."
While these young women had hoped for babies to their new lovers, serious relationships or their older men to divorce their wives, there will be an unexplained energy in the air, the kind that includes prayers and curses coming their way depending on the kind of men these women decided to connect with. As much as men and women reason that all is okay despite saying wedding vows before a supernatural God, the reality is, it isn't--it really isn't. Consider the countless media stories of scorned wives and lovers going off the deep end as a result of being cheated on and lied to. Until a man is divorced, he shouldn't be leading any woman on, making her believe that he is ready to move on with his life when it is obvious, he is not. So many men manipulate women then wonder why these sweet, beautiful young woman turn into crazy, obsessed b*tches, don't wonder, get out while you still have a mind and body intact as well as your freedom. See blog on dating and domestic violence as well as other abuses http://laboringtoloveanabusivemate.blogspot.com
Women, who have been in relationships with the following types of unavailable men such as: married men, married abused men, abusive married men, or are involved with married Sugar Daddies, know what it feels like when it seems like one's world is mysteriously getting worse fooling around with these backslidden Christian oath takers who stood before a group of people to declare their love for wives knowing full well they never loved God, his church or the wives they are committed to!
From health to finances, the young woman has more problems to solve while the unavailable man becomes less and less in their lives until he is no more! Babies born in these relationships never fully get to know their fathers. They are often forgotten about sooner or later, because the married man has to keep his mess away from his supposedly happy home.
One or both know when an affair is coming to an end when usually the married man is not acting as kind, patient and generous like he once was. He may find excuses not to come around his lover anymore or blatantly express his feelings of guilt, resentment, and anger toward wife and lover(s).
To eliminate some of the personal drama, it would make sense for any woman or man in a troubled relationship like this to end it, but there is always that but...or butt that makes things difficult. If this describes your situation, one way of relieving some of the tension is to keep away from all things that tempt you to want to go back to a lover. If her smile attracts you, rid yourself of images on and offline that remind you of her. If seeing him at a nearby workplace makes you want him, then avoid watching him and going to that place whenever possible. If she is one of your Facebook friends, a part of a dating network, a co-worker, or is in or around your home, or lives nearby, you will need to stop making an effort to talk and be with this young lady.
People ignore one another everyday and when you are determined to get on with your life and rid yourself of past mistakes, you don't keep inviting them back into your world. If a baby is involved, you have no choice but to do your part to help the young woman and your baby. If you are a married father reading this, you most likely will have to share this information with your spouse if the young woman plans on letting the world know about the baby via the court system, media, or confronting your wife and other relatives.
Most young women and older married men find each other as a source of escape from troubled marriages and mundane lifestyles. It was a process to get together and it will be a process to break up, but it can be done. Who wants to keep waiting by the phone for a call all hours of the day and night or worry over whether he or she is sleeping with someone else, stressed about money and gifts, or concerned that someone with a taste for blood just might find out about the relationship?
A man or woman who doesn't want to have to deal with the adrenaline rush of keeping secrets and telling lies during what is supposed to be a happy season, will stay home at least for a time. Having an affair is work. Telling lies and trying to keep up with those lies is exhausting. Remembering to address the needs of a wife, tend to work responsibilities, and do for children and other relatives is hard work. Then there is that young woman who thinks to herself, "What on earth did I get myself into?" Free yourself.
Happy Holidays!
Nicholl McGuire
Friday
7 Inexpensive Gift Ideas for the Older Man
A young woman just can't go wrong if she knows her older man's taste, but if he isn't one for being specific about his preferences, here are some gift ideas that are useful and will make him smile!
1. Wrinkle-free dress shirts. A professional man with a tight schedule doesn't like ironing or at times dropping off or picking up clothing from the cleaners. The young woman might purchase quality shirts in navy blue, gray or white for her mature man. To play it safe, avoid bright colors and bold prints.
2. Cologne is a good idea when you have some idea what he already has. If he enjoys subtle colognes like a musk or others that you can smell before he hits the door, you might want to do your research and let him smell some cologne samples before you buy one. However, if he is an allergy sufferer, pass on this gift idea, and instead get some useful hair and body items that are fragrance free and are designed for sensitive skin.
3. Ties along with a nice set of cuff links are a great gift if he is often in the public or travels to formal events. If you go along with this idea, be sure you have checked out what he already has to get some idea of his taste. Don't take a chance wasting your money on something silly just because you like it. He most likely will laugh about it, but he won't wear it.
4. Avoid jewelry unless you have been with the gentleman for a long time and know his taste well. Although a major purchase might flatter him, you don't want to go broke in the hopes of a serious commitment and nothing comes of it. Expensive gift items have a way of conveying exclusivity. You also don't want to be disappointed during your gift exchange only to find out the item he bought for you was inexpensive and meaningless. Instead of jewelry, get him something that helps him organize what he already has. So if he has many necklaces, rings, or cufflinks, seek out a nice-looking organizer.
5. Printed media is always a great gift for someone who loves to read, but not so much for the man who enjoys watching television or movies online. So be sure the media you choose goes along with his preference.
6. Collectible items are great gifts if you know what he enjoys collecting. If he has a favorite team, you might want to get something within reason to add to his office décor or his "man cave."
7. Spiritual men love anything that reaffirms their faith, makes them feel good, and is helpful to their godly assignments. So if you know how to pray, ask God to lead you to something that is worthwhile. Beautiful plaques, cups, framed pictures, key chains, book covers, book marks, and other Christian items make for great gifts.
Other items you might want to look out for on sale include: sweatshirts, belts, socks, underwear, hats with favorite teams/logos, and useful electronics under $100.
Nicholl McGuire also shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7 as well as links to other useful sites. See here.
1. Wrinkle-free dress shirts. A professional man with a tight schedule doesn't like ironing or at times dropping off or picking up clothing from the cleaners. The young woman might purchase quality shirts in navy blue, gray or white for her mature man. To play it safe, avoid bright colors and bold prints.
2. Cologne is a good idea when you have some idea what he already has. If he enjoys subtle colognes like a musk or others that you can smell before he hits the door, you might want to do your research and let him smell some cologne samples before you buy one. However, if he is an allergy sufferer, pass on this gift idea, and instead get some useful hair and body items that are fragrance free and are designed for sensitive skin.
3. Ties along with a nice set of cuff links are a great gift if he is often in the public or travels to formal events. If you go along with this idea, be sure you have checked out what he already has to get some idea of his taste. Don't take a chance wasting your money on something silly just because you like it. He most likely will laugh about it, but he won't wear it.
4. Avoid jewelry unless you have been with the gentleman for a long time and know his taste well. Although a major purchase might flatter him, you don't want to go broke in the hopes of a serious commitment and nothing comes of it. Expensive gift items have a way of conveying exclusivity. You also don't want to be disappointed during your gift exchange only to find out the item he bought for you was inexpensive and meaningless. Instead of jewelry, get him something that helps him organize what he already has. So if he has many necklaces, rings, or cufflinks, seek out a nice-looking organizer.
5. Printed media is always a great gift for someone who loves to read, but not so much for the man who enjoys watching television or movies online. So be sure the media you choose goes along with his preference.
6. Collectible items are great gifts if you know what he enjoys collecting. If he has a favorite team, you might want to get something within reason to add to his office décor or his "man cave."
7. Spiritual men love anything that reaffirms their faith, makes them feel good, and is helpful to their godly assignments. So if you know how to pray, ask God to lead you to something that is worthwhile. Beautiful plaques, cups, framed pictures, key chains, book covers, book marks, and other Christian items make for great gifts.
Other items you might want to look out for on sale include: sweatshirts, belts, socks, underwear, hats with favorite teams/logos, and useful electronics under $100.
Nicholl McGuire also shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7 as well as links to other useful sites. See here.
Tuesday
Older Men Remarry and Select Younger Women
When men remarry, they go way younger. Women pick someone older.
http://news.yahoo.com/men-remarry-way-younger-women-130002088.html
http://news.yahoo.com/men-remarry-way-younger-women-130002088.html
Sunday
How Do You Know the Older Man is Really as Clean as He Says He Is
Tips Dating Older Men, Dating Younger Women: How Do You Know the Older Man is Really as Clean a...: The gentleman dresses nice and smells good when he comes around you, this mature man is definitely making a good impression on you. But is...
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