A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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Still Married While Hoping to Divorce
He sits, dreaming that one day he will be free of a wife younger than him yet old enough to know better. The woman is intelligent, able to see through his mid-life challenges, while sick and tired of dealing with his disrespect. He desires something a little less smart, a lot younger, and one who fits into a world he most likely once to re-live--the days of high school crushes, irresponsibility, and fun.
But he's married...
Did I say he is married?
He tells the young woman, who makes his heart sing, "I'm married but..." This should be the end, but for many age-gap relationships, it is not the end. He promises divorce, says that he isn't in love with the wife, and paints a wonderful picture of what the future might look like with his young princess.
What do you think the young woman might do?
Fall for it.
Nicholl McGuire
But he's married...
Did I say he is married?
He tells the young woman, who makes his heart sing, "I'm married but..." This should be the end, but for many age-gap relationships, it is not the end. He promises divorce, says that he isn't in love with the wife, and paints a wonderful picture of what the future might look like with his young princess.
What do you think the young woman might do?
Fall for it.
Nicholl McGuire
Would a 22 Year Old Date an Older Guy and Why?
So many women in their twenties are targets for older, mature men. Whether he is married, single, or dating many others, the mature, rich man, with a plan, is going to try real hard to get the attention of that nice-looking twenty-something year old woman. He will start up a simple conversation by making a comment about something she is wearing. The wealthy, older guy might offer his assistance if he notices that a young woman needs help with something or he may ask questions, in an attempt to get her to open up to him.
When walking out in public, the mature gentleman might stare at the young lady from a distance hoping that she will take notice of him. A question might come to mind, would the 22 plus year old woman bother with the graying man with/without facial hair, fit/unfit, handsome or not? Most likely she will give him a bit of attention especially if he should make her laugh. Agreeing to date the older man might not be an issue if she knows that he has something more to offer besides flattering statements and a nice smile. The 22-year-old is looking over the rich man's shoulder at the car he is driving. She is viewing his wardrobe and looking at his ring finger. She is also noticing the jewelry he is wearing. She might take notice of how he smells and whether or not she can stand to look at his face and body shape for long. The young woman is also looking at the hue of his skin while checking out scars, age marks, and other imperfections along with tattoos while he brags about his haves while luring her into some conversation about her have-nots. She is determining whether or not she can tolerate listening and looking at the older man for long periods of time.
What might the affluent older man do for the 22 plus year old woman? He needs to know the answer to that question before he bothers to ask for a date. Sooner or later a smart, young lady will ask. Since many young women, who are focused on education and careers, aspire to do wonderful things that will make them feel accomplished, they aren't that interested in a middle-aged man's relatives, children, exes, etc. Smiles are deceiving. She is being polite when she is asking about one's personal life, but if she picks up on anything that sounds like work for her, drama that she has to put up with just to be with an older, rich (or poor) man, distractions that might interfere with her career goals/cost of living, or anything more that might potentially affect her plans, she most likely will forget about that nice, older gentleman. But other young ladies, depending on the impact the older man might have made on them, will take his number-- just in case they need financial help one day, a temporary sex buddy, or a father figure/mentor for a bit of wisdom.
Most career-driven young women are not interested in marriage and a baby in a carriage until late in life. Many more are definitely not interested in baby-sitting/looking after or spending money on another woman's children with the older man. The ones that might put aside life goals and work to assist their older partners are those that are very unhappy with their current or unresolved past situations. Maybe they have the following challenges:
-Don't get along with parents.
-Recently broke up with someone.
-Became homeless.
-Found out they are pregnant.
-Have a mental condition.
-Struggle with past issues regarding a father figure or other males or something else that might have occurred in their personal lives to derail dreams.
A young lady just might tolerate the older guy if he acts like her escape from past woes especially if he is stable and secure in his life. Desperate, young women seek the older men who are weak to helping beautiful damsels in distress. Sobs, anger outbursts, frequent sighing, or fake laughs over one's troubles is often given early on in the dating relationship (along with much sex) in the hopes that she can secure the successful, older man until the troubled young woman no longer has need of him.
So when it comes to young women dating older men, it all depends on who you ask and what their life issue might be at the time. Just know that love doesn't come easy. A spiritually and mentally immature woman who is still learning and growing isn't much interested in love as much as opportunity.
Nicholl McGuire
When walking out in public, the mature gentleman might stare at the young lady from a distance hoping that she will take notice of him. A question might come to mind, would the 22 plus year old woman bother with the graying man with/without facial hair, fit/unfit, handsome or not? Most likely she will give him a bit of attention especially if he should make her laugh. Agreeing to date the older man might not be an issue if she knows that he has something more to offer besides flattering statements and a nice smile. The 22-year-old is looking over the rich man's shoulder at the car he is driving. She is viewing his wardrobe and looking at his ring finger. She is also noticing the jewelry he is wearing. She might take notice of how he smells and whether or not she can stand to look at his face and body shape for long. The young woman is also looking at the hue of his skin while checking out scars, age marks, and other imperfections along with tattoos while he brags about his haves while luring her into some conversation about her have-nots. She is determining whether or not she can tolerate listening and looking at the older man for long periods of time.
What might the affluent older man do for the 22 plus year old woman? He needs to know the answer to that question before he bothers to ask for a date. Sooner or later a smart, young lady will ask. Since many young women, who are focused on education and careers, aspire to do wonderful things that will make them feel accomplished, they aren't that interested in a middle-aged man's relatives, children, exes, etc. Smiles are deceiving. She is being polite when she is asking about one's personal life, but if she picks up on anything that sounds like work for her, drama that she has to put up with just to be with an older, rich (or poor) man, distractions that might interfere with her career goals/cost of living, or anything more that might potentially affect her plans, she most likely will forget about that nice, older gentleman. But other young ladies, depending on the impact the older man might have made on them, will take his number-- just in case they need financial help one day, a temporary sex buddy, or a father figure/mentor for a bit of wisdom.
Most career-driven young women are not interested in marriage and a baby in a carriage until late in life. Many more are definitely not interested in baby-sitting/looking after or spending money on another woman's children with the older man. The ones that might put aside life goals and work to assist their older partners are those that are very unhappy with their current or unresolved past situations. Maybe they have the following challenges:
-Don't get along with parents.
-Recently broke up with someone.
-Became homeless.
-Found out they are pregnant.
-Have a mental condition.
-Struggle with past issues regarding a father figure or other males or something else that might have occurred in their personal lives to derail dreams.
A young lady just might tolerate the older guy if he acts like her escape from past woes especially if he is stable and secure in his life. Desperate, young women seek the older men who are weak to helping beautiful damsels in distress. Sobs, anger outbursts, frequent sighing, or fake laughs over one's troubles is often given early on in the dating relationship (along with much sex) in the hopes that she can secure the successful, older man until the troubled young woman no longer has need of him.
So when it comes to young women dating older men, it all depends on who you ask and what their life issue might be at the time. Just know that love doesn't come easy. A spiritually and mentally immature woman who is still learning and growing isn't much interested in love as much as opportunity.
Nicholl McGuire
Young Women: Guard Your Beauty and Your Youth
As much as we would like to believe that those who seek a companion mean well, there are many in our society that are more concerned about intimate needs being met by an attractive and energetic special someone. Yet, when you are older, and not as youthful as you once were and not much interested in living life like a youth, why does one bother dating younger?
A young beautiful woman full of life must guard her beauty and her youth from those who are simply dull, boring types who may have once looked fit and attractive and had an interesting life, but not anymore. If there is one who is wise around the youthful beauty, she should take heed to advice discouraging her not to date someone who is showing signs that he is more interested in stealing her beauty and youth for himself; rather than working to preserve his own. From keeping the young woman close to him to saying or doing negative things to keep the young woman from experiencing life, some older men have troubled minds void of understanding, empathy or love for another human being. Controlling, abusive, and downright strange, older men tend to be the ones who prey on content, young women, who might be easily persuaded into having sex in exchange for money and gifts.
The more these young women give their beauty and energy away to tired, older men who have very little conversation, much less little time for intimacy, the more the twinkle in their eyes diminishes and the laughter, that once charmed their mature men, becomes no more. Ever wonder why an older man who has a young woman on his arm looks unhappy? Shouldn't he be grateful to have such a wonderful dame in his presence? If he is honest with himself, he knows he has no business dating out of his age group especially if she is still discovering things about herself and isn't much knowledgeable about simple day-to-day living. If the older guy isn't going to do the kind of things to make a young woman stay interested in him, like have a real conversation with her, then he has no business dating or marrying her. Have you ever noticed the face of a young woman walking with or behind an older man? Does she look happy and in love like she might be with someone closer to her age? She may have a few bags in her hand, bought by her older partner, but is she really happy?
Beauty goes away so very quickly, before long the young woman looks at herself in the mirror and asks, "Where has time gone? Why do I look so worn?" Meanwhile, next to her in the mirror is an aging man, one who uses the unloved woman as a mere trophy piece to trick society into thinking he is okay with living his life. Really?
Young women guard your beauty and your youth. Tired, older men who thought that getting a young woman would complete you, think again! Joy comes from within. If you are unhappy with yourself and your life choices, seek your Creator to complete you, not a young woman still full of life!
Nicholl McGuire
A young beautiful woman full of life must guard her beauty and her youth from those who are simply dull, boring types who may have once looked fit and attractive and had an interesting life, but not anymore. If there is one who is wise around the youthful beauty, she should take heed to advice discouraging her not to date someone who is showing signs that he is more interested in stealing her beauty and youth for himself; rather than working to preserve his own. From keeping the young woman close to him to saying or doing negative things to keep the young woman from experiencing life, some older men have troubled minds void of understanding, empathy or love for another human being. Controlling, abusive, and downright strange, older men tend to be the ones who prey on content, young women, who might be easily persuaded into having sex in exchange for money and gifts.
The more these young women give their beauty and energy away to tired, older men who have very little conversation, much less little time for intimacy, the more the twinkle in their eyes diminishes and the laughter, that once charmed their mature men, becomes no more. Ever wonder why an older man who has a young woman on his arm looks unhappy? Shouldn't he be grateful to have such a wonderful dame in his presence? If he is honest with himself, he knows he has no business dating out of his age group especially if she is still discovering things about herself and isn't much knowledgeable about simple day-to-day living. If the older guy isn't going to do the kind of things to make a young woman stay interested in him, like have a real conversation with her, then he has no business dating or marrying her. Have you ever noticed the face of a young woman walking with or behind an older man? Does she look happy and in love like she might be with someone closer to her age? She may have a few bags in her hand, bought by her older partner, but is she really happy?
Beauty goes away so very quickly, before long the young woman looks at herself in the mirror and asks, "Where has time gone? Why do I look so worn?" Meanwhile, next to her in the mirror is an aging man, one who uses the unloved woman as a mere trophy piece to trick society into thinking he is okay with living his life. Really?
Young women guard your beauty and your youth. Tired, older men who thought that getting a young woman would complete you, think again! Joy comes from within. If you are unhappy with yourself and your life choices, seek your Creator to complete you, not a young woman still full of life!
Nicholl McGuire
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