Friday
Avoid Sex with Minors
Here are some reasons not to even think about dating a child much less being intimate with them! There are laws in the United States against sex with minors. Although some countries still permit these unions between children and adults, there are serious consequences that prove why one would be better off staying away! Now some might argue that "Nothing happened when I..." but sooner or later something will, better off removing one's self out of the situation before someone gets hurt!
8-year-old bride dies from internal injuries because of 40-year-old husband
Malaysian Man Accused Of Rape Marries 13-Year-Old Victim; Attorney General Vows To Pursue Charges
Rumor Update: 70-year-old man marries 15-year-old girl
5-year-old Indian girl dies of heart attack after rape (The incident was not an arranged marriage).
Here are some tips when it comes to identifying whether a young woman is really a girl:
1. She uses heavy makeup and when she appears without it, she looks like a young child.
2. She doesn't converse like an experienced woman. For instance, she has little, if any, responsibilites.
3. She often talks about parents or caretakers providing for her.
4. Her ID appears to be tampered with and she acts like she can't be seen with you.
5. The girl talks about interests that most young women aren't the least bit interested in.
6. She is hypersexual (often talking about it, clingy, dresses for attention).
7. She may or may not act discreet when it comes to sex. She may show signs that she isn't respectful of herself or others.
8. When upset, she will cry like a child or have a fit. She fails to communicate concerns like an adult would.
For more tips, see other articles on this blog under the labels "advice choosing young women to date" and "advice for older men seeking younger women."
Monday
Dating Older, Dating Younger: What Do You Sincerely Want in a Relationship?
Whether she is looking for the wealthy professional long-term or he is seeking an attractive, young woman to be intimate with for the short term, the two must communicate their intentions or otherwise someone or both will have a rocky road to climb that just might leave the pair very weary and bitter with one another in the end.
People get involved in relationships for any number of reasons whether the church, parents, or government agrees or not. Some couples connect for reasons that are obvious and have been publicly shared without shame while others not so much. What is in darkness does come out into the light eventually, so one must be honest about his or her intent when dating a young woman or older man.
Take a moment to think about why a mature man seeks after a young lady in search of a Sugar Daddy or why a young, educated woman appears to act very interested in a rich, unattractive gentleman? In these examples, these people have specific needs and believe their encounters with one another will meet them. No matter the relationship, background, creed, religion, ethnicity, someone has learned of some benefit when one dates the other that he or she may or may not know about. The rumor, stereotype, or "word on the street" might be true about one's love interest, but maybe not.
It takes time to get to know people, but unfortunately far too many people are connecting on the Internet believing that they have found a special someone that will complete them only to be disappointed in the end. Quality relationships aren't built through good communication alone! You can express how you feel until you are blue in the face through email, text, and in-person discussion, but if a person isn't much interested in you, other than what you can do for him or her, you just won't be able to make them stay in a serious relationship that they may have never wanted in the first place.
To date one older can be a great experience with the right attitude and a mindset that can look beyond the aging process. It is inevitable, people will get older. When one chooses to date younger, he or she must recognize that there is still much a youthful partner doesn't know about life; therefore, much patience is required. Personality differences will get in the way if one doesn't recognize that relationships are built on working together and not apart. Sometimes one will have to set aside his or her preferences/interests/way of life for another. One who is more concerned about "playing" is not interested in compromise.
Be sure you know what type of relationship you want with your younger or older mate. There are open relationships, secretive ones, wild ones, committed ones, and more. Be honest about who you are such as: what you want, the past, present, and future if you want a relationship built on a solid foundation, but if you aren't seeking anything serious--save your best for the one who you really want in the future. Establish boundaries when dating and avoid the temptation to do the kind of things that would bring shame on you and your family. Most of all, be certain that dating young or older is what you sincerely want.
Nicholl McGuire author of Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate and When Mothers Cry.
People get involved in relationships for any number of reasons whether the church, parents, or government agrees or not. Some couples connect for reasons that are obvious and have been publicly shared without shame while others not so much. What is in darkness does come out into the light eventually, so one must be honest about his or her intent when dating a young woman or older man.
Take a moment to think about why a mature man seeks after a young lady in search of a Sugar Daddy or why a young, educated woman appears to act very interested in a rich, unattractive gentleman? In these examples, these people have specific needs and believe their encounters with one another will meet them. No matter the relationship, background, creed, religion, ethnicity, someone has learned of some benefit when one dates the other that he or she may or may not know about. The rumor, stereotype, or "word on the street" might be true about one's love interest, but maybe not.
It takes time to get to know people, but unfortunately far too many people are connecting on the Internet believing that they have found a special someone that will complete them only to be disappointed in the end. Quality relationships aren't built through good communication alone! You can express how you feel until you are blue in the face through email, text, and in-person discussion, but if a person isn't much interested in you, other than what you can do for him or her, you just won't be able to make them stay in a serious relationship that they may have never wanted in the first place.
To date one older can be a great experience with the right attitude and a mindset that can look beyond the aging process. It is inevitable, people will get older. When one chooses to date younger, he or she must recognize that there is still much a youthful partner doesn't know about life; therefore, much patience is required. Personality differences will get in the way if one doesn't recognize that relationships are built on working together and not apart. Sometimes one will have to set aside his or her preferences/interests/way of life for another. One who is more concerned about "playing" is not interested in compromise.
Be sure you know what type of relationship you want with your younger or older mate. There are open relationships, secretive ones, wild ones, committed ones, and more. Be honest about who you are such as: what you want, the past, present, and future if you want a relationship built on a solid foundation, but if you aren't seeking anything serious--save your best for the one who you really want in the future. Establish boundaries when dating and avoid the temptation to do the kind of things that would bring shame on you and your family. Most of all, be certain that dating young or older is what you sincerely want.
Nicholl McGuire author of Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate and When Mothers Cry.
Thursday
How Do You Know When You Are Dating Someone Who is Too Young?
Some older men just might need a wake up call when it comes to dating young women. There are laws in the land on dating women young enough to be one's daughter twice for good reason!
1. You know your girlfriend's too young when every other word that comes out of her mouth during a conversation is "Like," "You know" or "Cool."
2. She's too young for you when she is asking you, "Now where is it that you like to shop again? My grandfather likes going there too!"
3. She just isn't old enough for you when she is enjoying your children more than you. "Hey, let's play another game, your dad is boring!"
4. She lies about her age (sometimes by applying heavy makeup) just so that people will stop staring when you both are out together, yet they keep right on looking any way. You can't hide the truth!
5. She is just a baby when she asks a lot, "What do you think? How do you feel? Do you think I should?"
6. She is far too young, when a relative threatens to call the police if they see you coming around her again.
No girl/woman is worth losing your freedom or your life, jump ship while you still have time!
Nicholl McGuire
1. You know your girlfriend's too young when every other word that comes out of her mouth during a conversation is "Like," "You know" or "Cool."
2. She's too young for you when she is asking you, "Now where is it that you like to shop again? My grandfather likes going there too!"
3. She just isn't old enough for you when she is enjoying your children more than you. "Hey, let's play another game, your dad is boring!"
4. She lies about her age (sometimes by applying heavy makeup) just so that people will stop staring when you both are out together, yet they keep right on looking any way. You can't hide the truth!
5. She is just a baby when she asks a lot, "What do you think? How do you feel? Do you think I should?"
6. She is far too young, when a relative threatens to call the police if they see you coming around her again.
No girl/woman is worth losing your freedom or your life, jump ship while you still have time!
Nicholl McGuire
Wednesday
How Old is Too Old When Dating an Older Man?
Could you use a bit of sense of humor today? Here's how you know when you are dating someone way too old for you!
1. He repeats the same story at least three times or more in a conversation that is less than an hour long.
2. He confuses you with a young lady he dated back when he was a youngster. When you correct him on calling you by the wrong name, he says, "I'm sorry I didn't recognize you, let me go get my glasses."
3. He is too old when he misses the toilet when he goes to the bathroom.
4. If he often complains about his back, neck, head and any other part of his anatomy before sex, during or after--take a clue, he's too d*mn old!
5. When he says things like, "When I was your age...You are so young...What do you want an old geezer like me for?"
6. He's too old when you constantly smell something old coming from his body! Be careful that smell might rub off on you!
7. You have yourself a real old guy when he starts reflecting back to a time when he only paid cents for something.
8. He tells you that your old enough to be his granddaughter.
9. When everything you touch on him is soft and he seems to be shrinking everywhere except for his ears and nose--they appear as if they are growing monthly!
10. He is definitely too old when your grandmother tries to hit on him!
Nicholl McGuire
1. He repeats the same story at least three times or more in a conversation that is less than an hour long.
2. He confuses you with a young lady he dated back when he was a youngster. When you correct him on calling you by the wrong name, he says, "I'm sorry I didn't recognize you, let me go get my glasses."
3. He is too old when he misses the toilet when he goes to the bathroom.
4. If he often complains about his back, neck, head and any other part of his anatomy before sex, during or after--take a clue, he's too d*mn old!
5. When he says things like, "When I was your age...You are so young...What do you want an old geezer like me for?"
6. He's too old when you constantly smell something old coming from his body! Be careful that smell might rub off on you!
7. You have yourself a real old guy when he starts reflecting back to a time when he only paid cents for something.
8. He tells you that your old enough to be his granddaughter.
9. When everything you touch on him is soft and he seems to be shrinking everywhere except for his ears and nose--they appear as if they are growing monthly!
10. He is definitely too old when your grandmother tries to hit on him!
Nicholl McGuire
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