A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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Young and So Dumb - What Some Selfish, Older Men Really Think of Women
Some mature men just don't think highly of women their own age much less young ladies. They can be hateful, angry, and rude toward women. As far as they are concerned they are good for periodic sex, a hot meal, money, and not much else. A 30 plus year old man who claims that he wants to settle down with a young woman who is 18 is definitely something to think twice about. She doesn't have much material wealth especially if she is still living with parents. Her life experience can't be compared to a man who is 10, 15 or even 20 plus years older than she. She is still learning and growing when it comes to life issues. The older man may have a daughter or son not that much younger who might still need to be parented. It is safe to say that the older man is most likely going through a personal crisis and what a nice distraction from his personal problems when he meets a bubbly, sweet young lady.
Of course, the mature man will attempt to persuade the young lady that he isn't having any midlife issues and that he knows what he wants. But the truth is, if you take a look at the gentleman's relationship history, how many other women did he claim to love, want, need, like? Notice what he says about the relationship endings and whether he is mainly blaming his exes and in-laws.
Some older men just love the idea of being with new sexual partners more so than settling down with them--no matter the age. But if a single or unavailable man wants to put his potential young lover at ease, he is going to say the kinds of things that will make her feel secure and safe with him.
"You are so pretty. I love that scent you are wearing. Would you like for me to buy you some more? I'm not the kind of guy who plays games, I know what I want, so will you give it to me? What would you think of being my wife one day?" The man who says these things obviously wants the young woman to feel special and consider keeping him around even though he isn't considering anything long-term or serious and may have told her so. The mature man is well aware that there are younger men who would very much like to date the young apple of his eye; therefore, he has to say whatever he can to keep her interested in him.
Some men laugh with the guys about the things they have said and done to win the trust of their young lovers. They enjoy the "dumb" act that some women play, but what they don't know is that there are those who are sincerely acting. When the time is right, those women will reveal their true selves and most likely the men won't like them so much. Then there are those young ladies who really are unintelligent and immature and so a lot of older men don't mind making them notches on their belts and then moving on. Sad, but true. These manipulative men will photograph or video record some of these young, obedient women and collect their images like hunters hanging up the heads of their prey on walls. With social media, online and offline albums, you never know just how many women have fallen prey to an older man's fantasies.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men and other books.
Of course, the mature man will attempt to persuade the young lady that he isn't having any midlife issues and that he knows what he wants. But the truth is, if you take a look at the gentleman's relationship history, how many other women did he claim to love, want, need, like? Notice what he says about the relationship endings and whether he is mainly blaming his exes and in-laws.
Some older men just love the idea of being with new sexual partners more so than settling down with them--no matter the age. But if a single or unavailable man wants to put his potential young lover at ease, he is going to say the kinds of things that will make her feel secure and safe with him.
"You are so pretty. I love that scent you are wearing. Would you like for me to buy you some more? I'm not the kind of guy who plays games, I know what I want, so will you give it to me? What would you think of being my wife one day?" The man who says these things obviously wants the young woman to feel special and consider keeping him around even though he isn't considering anything long-term or serious and may have told her so. The mature man is well aware that there are younger men who would very much like to date the young apple of his eye; therefore, he has to say whatever he can to keep her interested in him.
Some men laugh with the guys about the things they have said and done to win the trust of their young lovers. They enjoy the "dumb" act that some women play, but what they don't know is that there are those who are sincerely acting. When the time is right, those women will reveal their true selves and most likely the men won't like them so much. Then there are those young ladies who really are unintelligent and immature and so a lot of older men don't mind making them notches on their belts and then moving on. Sad, but true. These manipulative men will photograph or video record some of these young, obedient women and collect their images like hunters hanging up the heads of their prey on walls. With social media, online and offline albums, you never know just how many women have fallen prey to an older man's fantasies.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men and other books.
Monday
Saturday
Crazy, Weird, Silly - Don't Settle for Someone You Don't Really Want
When I was younger if a man had a funny looking face, an annoying flaw like a bizarre laugh, or something else I didn't like, I simply didn't make him The Guy. You know that special one in your life you want to roll around in the bed with or the guy you take home to parents. As I grew older, I created additional standards for myself and didn't care whether he had a great sports car, a huge home, and a large bank roll, if he wasn't my type, I wasn't letting him see my legs, much less my boobs.
Seriously my friends, stop the settling and this goes for the mature men too. You want a 10, but yet you go out with a five? Sooner or later that "okay" looking young lady is going to know you just don't like her much. What about the smart gal who looks great, but you don't approach her because of whatever insecurities you are grappling with? So what if she says, "No, I have a boyfriend already." There are others, many others, who will give you a little bit of this and that if you are honest.
Crazy, weird and silly people are everywhere on and off the Internet and if you don't consider yourself to be one of the three, then why get involved with odd folks? I don't care how fine the hair, eye color, height, body type is, if I don't want him--I don't want him! This is a major issue with many singles, divorced, and even unavailable men and women, they either can't connect with good-looking people with a brain between their ears or they settle for what is convenient, nearby, easy, cheap, affordable, etc. Some daters treat online dating like shopping at Walmart. "Did the price drop yet...? Oh wow, two for one special. Is the meat fresh or is it expired? Where's my coupon? The store is right by my house. Is it Black Friday?" Now for some it just might be "black" Friday, but I digress. And for others, they are serious about the quality of meat they choose too...anyway, people have feelings, I repeat, people have feelings and there is more to them than their dating preferences, location and age.
So the next time you come across some individuals that really don't impress you, no matter how eager they are to try you like you are a tasty sample at the local Cosco or Sam's Club, politely move on. Chances are they just want whatever you are putting out anyway--nothing more, nothing less. But if you want a little more than a one time experience, then be prepared to put your work in and don't settle!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Say Goodbye to Dad and other books.
Seriously my friends, stop the settling and this goes for the mature men too. You want a 10, but yet you go out with a five? Sooner or later that "okay" looking young lady is going to know you just don't like her much. What about the smart gal who looks great, but you don't approach her because of whatever insecurities you are grappling with? So what if she says, "No, I have a boyfriend already." There are others, many others, who will give you a little bit of this and that if you are honest.
Crazy, weird and silly people are everywhere on and off the Internet and if you don't consider yourself to be one of the three, then why get involved with odd folks? I don't care how fine the hair, eye color, height, body type is, if I don't want him--I don't want him! This is a major issue with many singles, divorced, and even unavailable men and women, they either can't connect with good-looking people with a brain between their ears or they settle for what is convenient, nearby, easy, cheap, affordable, etc. Some daters treat online dating like shopping at Walmart. "Did the price drop yet...? Oh wow, two for one special. Is the meat fresh or is it expired? Where's my coupon? The store is right by my house. Is it Black Friday?" Now for some it just might be "black" Friday, but I digress. And for others, they are serious about the quality of meat they choose too...anyway, people have feelings, I repeat, people have feelings and there is more to them than their dating preferences, location and age.
So the next time you come across some individuals that really don't impress you, no matter how eager they are to try you like you are a tasty sample at the local Cosco or Sam's Club, politely move on. Chances are they just want whatever you are putting out anyway--nothing more, nothing less. But if you want a little more than a one time experience, then be prepared to put your work in and don't settle!
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Say Goodbye to Dad and other books.
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