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Friday
On Dating Older Guys: When the Young Lady Realizes Her Youth Isn't Forever
Every young woman experiences varying seasons of being ignorant, naïve, silly, and fragile when it comes to dealing with life issues. A mature man knows this and most often will not think too much about having a long-lasting, committed relationship with a young woman/girl who is still developing mentally and physically. However, there are those men who are excited about the possibility of playing the role of naughty teacher to an unsuspecting student while others simply desire a quality relationship. Despite age differences, issues related to immaturity, family members' concerns, and more, some older men will continue to work at building a relationship with their younger partners.
It can be sometimes shameful and embarrassing for some senior men to date younger women with a 30 plus age gap, and so they will end good times before they become challenging ones. Others are nonchalant when it comes to the older dating younger relationship and will continue to be with very young women/girls despite what people their own age and older warn. These men reason, "As long as I am having a good time, who cares what they think?" Notice "I" not we is in the previous statement.
But one day, the young woman/girl will start to notice that her youth is passing her by. She might find that acting like anyone but herself isn't what she wants to do. She may start to listen to wise counselors while coming to the realization that maybe being with an older man just isn't for her. The young lady's requests for money and other things from her older man will eventually not suffice and the nagging feeling within her will one day question, "Youth and beauty are passing you by, what more do you want out of life besides sex and things?"
Most young women/girls don't reach any "aha" moment of being used and abused or being the user or abuser until they hit rock bottom in their lives. It is when they start to feel like someone has robbed them of something or they have missed out on life that they start looking around for someone or something to blame. The fantasy of love and forever bliss is wiped away with reality and heartbreak for her, the lover or both.
A mature man might walk away from his spoiled creation sooner or later, but may return again like a drug addict needing yet another fix. The same might occur with the young woman. The time will come when hard decisions must be reached to be in or out of the relationship. An older man, who knows better, will recognize his young woman is evolving and like a butterfly, he will watch her fly freely. But the controlling, abusive type will attempt to put a "pretty young thing" back into her cocoon. In the eyes of the narcissist and the psychopath, she is nothing more than a "thing" anyway.
Watch Nicholl McGuire's videos on the narcissist and the psychopath here. She also maintains Love Dating Advice
It can be sometimes shameful and embarrassing for some senior men to date younger women with a 30 plus age gap, and so they will end good times before they become challenging ones. Others are nonchalant when it comes to the older dating younger relationship and will continue to be with very young women/girls despite what people their own age and older warn. These men reason, "As long as I am having a good time, who cares what they think?" Notice "I" not we is in the previous statement.
But one day, the young woman/girl will start to notice that her youth is passing her by. She might find that acting like anyone but herself isn't what she wants to do. She may start to listen to wise counselors while coming to the realization that maybe being with an older man just isn't for her. The young lady's requests for money and other things from her older man will eventually not suffice and the nagging feeling within her will one day question, "Youth and beauty are passing you by, what more do you want out of life besides sex and things?"
Most young women/girls don't reach any "aha" moment of being used and abused or being the user or abuser until they hit rock bottom in their lives. It is when they start to feel like someone has robbed them of something or they have missed out on life that they start looking around for someone or something to blame. The fantasy of love and forever bliss is wiped away with reality and heartbreak for her, the lover or both.
A mature man might walk away from his spoiled creation sooner or later, but may return again like a drug addict needing yet another fix. The same might occur with the young woman. The time will come when hard decisions must be reached to be in or out of the relationship. An older man, who knows better, will recognize his young woman is evolving and like a butterfly, he will watch her fly freely. But the controlling, abusive type will attempt to put a "pretty young thing" back into her cocoon. In the eyes of the narcissist and the psychopath, she is nothing more than a "thing" anyway.
Watch Nicholl McGuire's videos on the narcissist and the psychopath here. She also maintains Love Dating Advice
Wednesday
Charmed into Dating Still Married, Older Guys
They can be incredibly nice, sophisticated, handsome seniors who know how to talk the talk and walk the walk. It doesn't matter to these guys that they are in troubled marriages, married living separately, getting a divorce or the divorce is still pending, or even happily married, these older Don Juan types know how to talk a young woman's panties off while leaving her wanting for more!
But what about the fact he is married? And what about all the drama that comes with being involved with married men or is there any? Some older guys will keep the drama away while they play. They will tell the wife they are just doing things like: visiting friends, working late, working out, hanging out with friends, or spending time at a favorite place, but the reality is these married men are seeking either something new in the meantime or a replacement.
The young woman, who just might be in a miserable relationship of her own, doesn't care much that the older man, who has a way with words, is married, but then again the thought just might cross her mind that to date him is wrong. Yet, the way the man makes her feel means more than what's right or wrong particularly if she hasn't felt alive with a partner in years! The broken woman, who is in the process of or has divorced her husband doesn't contemplate too much about the married man's status either especially if he is generous with his money. Then there are those young women, who like the Don Juan, may have a complicated personal life, but they too would like to play while keeping the drama of current or old boyfriends away. The charmer studies the one he has charmed to see how strong she is morally before planting seeds of getting together one day.
For some of these married men, who enjoy talking to and sexing young women, they aren't much on thinking too deeply about the future. They don't bother to think about the many problems that come with being a cheat. Families are often left destroyed, young women can and will get pregnant eventually, wives might want to reconcile, children misbehave as a result of tension at home, and so on. Meanwhile, the pretty young woman sits back and listens to the words of someone who just might be her worst nightmare.
If you are being pursued by an unavailable man, play out his personal life in your head based on what he has told you as well as what you can see with your own two eyes before risking possibly your life or his. Some wives just don't take marital vows lightly and may not exhibit self-control if they should find out their husbands are cheating. Once you know that dating a married man isn't for you, start distancing yourself from him.
Nicholl McGuire
But what about the fact he is married? And what about all the drama that comes with being involved with married men or is there any? Some older guys will keep the drama away while they play. They will tell the wife they are just doing things like: visiting friends, working late, working out, hanging out with friends, or spending time at a favorite place, but the reality is these married men are seeking either something new in the meantime or a replacement.
The young woman, who just might be in a miserable relationship of her own, doesn't care much that the older man, who has a way with words, is married, but then again the thought just might cross her mind that to date him is wrong. Yet, the way the man makes her feel means more than what's right or wrong particularly if she hasn't felt alive with a partner in years! The broken woman, who is in the process of or has divorced her husband doesn't contemplate too much about the married man's status either especially if he is generous with his money. Then there are those young women, who like the Don Juan, may have a complicated personal life, but they too would like to play while keeping the drama of current or old boyfriends away. The charmer studies the one he has charmed to see how strong she is morally before planting seeds of getting together one day.
For some of these married men, who enjoy talking to and sexing young women, they aren't much on thinking too deeply about the future. They don't bother to think about the many problems that come with being a cheat. Families are often left destroyed, young women can and will get pregnant eventually, wives might want to reconcile, children misbehave as a result of tension at home, and so on. Meanwhile, the pretty young woman sits back and listens to the words of someone who just might be her worst nightmare.
If you are being pursued by an unavailable man, play out his personal life in your head based on what he has told you as well as what you can see with your own two eyes before risking possibly your life or his. Some wives just don't take marital vows lightly and may not exhibit self-control if they should find out their husbands are cheating. Once you know that dating a married man isn't for you, start distancing yourself from him.
Nicholl McGuire
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