I couldn't help but share the following links, because in my experience being around older men, I have found that at a certain point in their lives usually 40 plus, many become easily irritated and downright mean. Some simply can't help themselves, while others know how they are behaving, but don't care or quickly find excuses for their short responses and anger outbursts.
There is nothing nice or sweet about a middle-aged man who is often mean-spirited at home, but totally different at his workplace. However, in time, the two worlds will collide and unfortunately there will be no winners in the end. The tempermental often forgetful man may lose his job, family, friends, and more as a result of his fluctuating hormones due to things like: a lack of exercise, poor eating habits, and an avoidance of vitamins, herbal remedies, or prescription medicines for his conditions.
If you are an older man who is suffering with forgetfulness, moodiness, erectile dysfunction, hot flashes, and more, get some help. If you are with someone like this, make up in your mind whether you are going to direct him to some assistance and support him through these challenging times or leave. But whatever you do, don't Labor to Love an Abusive Mate! Click on the links.
The Irritable Male Syndrome, Why Midlife Men Turn Mean
Tuesday
BBC - Newsbeat - Health - Age gap relationships: Good or bad?
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BBC - Newsbeat - Health - Age gap relationships: Good or bad?
BBC - Newsbeat - Health - Age gap relationships: Good or bad?
Most Older Men Don't Want the Younger Woman, He Just Likes to Flirt
Can you tell the difference between an older man who is simply flirting with no strings attached and one who is very interested in dating a younger woman? Some women can't tell while some men couldn't care less--that is unless the young woman is his daughter. There are those young women who falsely assume that any man who visits the drive thru window at a fast food restaurant one too many times in a day to order something with a smile on their faces are interested in them. Others worry that certain men who talk or laugh too long would like to date. The thought for some young women never crosses their mind, the mature man has someone already and is just being nice.
When one is desperate for attention, believes that she can gain something (for nothing) or hopes to find that partner to complete her through a moment of laughter and a wink, she appears weak and silly. Some men like to travel the same route everyday going to and from work, eat at the same restaurant, or shop at the same store. Their frequent visits doesn't always mean he wants the young woman taking his order or ringing the cash register even though their are some men who do these things hoping to make a connection.
A young woman, who mistakes a friendly exchange as something more, might flirt with the mature man, inquire about his personal life, or assume that he might be "the one." Some men, who don't clearly draw the line, will fall for that young woman and eventually destroy their families. So much lost all because a series of friendly encounters grew into a temptation with dire consequences.
Young women as well as older men must pay attention to what signs they might be sending to one another. Mature unavailable men, consider changing up routines when you see that certain women are beginning to act in ways that say, "I'm interested." Single young women, be mindful of that flirtacious male's wedding band, photographs, the children riding in his car, the presence of a woman now and then walking or riding with him, or references he makes about "my wife...my family...my girlfriend." Put yourself in his shoes, would you break up your family for a lover?
Nicholl McGuire author of When Mothers Cry
When one is desperate for attention, believes that she can gain something (for nothing) or hopes to find that partner to complete her through a moment of laughter and a wink, she appears weak and silly. Some men like to travel the same route everyday going to and from work, eat at the same restaurant, or shop at the same store. Their frequent visits doesn't always mean he wants the young woman taking his order or ringing the cash register even though their are some men who do these things hoping to make a connection.
A young woman, who mistakes a friendly exchange as something more, might flirt with the mature man, inquire about his personal life, or assume that he might be "the one." Some men, who don't clearly draw the line, will fall for that young woman and eventually destroy their families. So much lost all because a series of friendly encounters grew into a temptation with dire consequences.
Young women as well as older men must pay attention to what signs they might be sending to one another. Mature unavailable men, consider changing up routines when you see that certain women are beginning to act in ways that say, "I'm interested." Single young women, be mindful of that flirtacious male's wedding band, photographs, the children riding in his car, the presence of a woman now and then walking or riding with him, or references he makes about "my wife...my family...my girlfriend." Put yourself in his shoes, would you break up your family for a lover?
Nicholl McGuire author of When Mothers Cry
Deception: When the pretty woman, nice man turns ugly
Don't ever feel so comfortable with an older man that you, younger woman, feel as if you can let yourself go. And older man, don't feel that a younger woman will stick around just because you promise to take care of her while pretending you are taking care of yourself. In both situations, you will be found out sooner or later!
Most experts will tell you that men are visual creatures who like to look at attractive women. Well, I will have to say that women like to look at nice looking men too, but beauty isn't high on our list. We can date unattractive men as long as they have other things that attract us to them like a nice body, voice, intelligent, kind, caring, etc. With that said, a younger woman who thinks that she can go from a 10 to a 5 while dating an older man who she feels comfortable with is going to find herself in trouble one day like an ugly, nice man thinking that it's okay to start acting mean now that he has the pretty woman.
How you begin a dating relationship is going to set the foundation for the future. People lose interest quickly when the packaged goods is not what they expected they would be once they have invested in them. If the younger woman advertises, "Fun and sexy with no strings attached." What do you think that older man who stumbles across her profile is going to want from the day he meets her and beyond? So a future of marriage, not likely, if she so desires that kind of relationship with him one day. If the younger woman displays an ad that says, "Christian single seeking an older man who loves God..." She is going to expect that older man to have a faith and attend church with her. Now if he starts going to the club or bar, the relationship is over.
We must be careful what messages we convey to others especially if we are seeking our ideal mate. We also have to be willing to keep up with our image as best we can. The people who have the hardest time maintaining who they are and what they represent are those who are not sincerely what they claim to be. If the older man claims that he is active and outgoing in the beginning of th dating relationship, yet when he starts dating the younger woman, she discovers he is the total opposite of what he says, the younger woman is going to feel deceived and call him out on his false advertising. Why lie or cover who you really are? Why point the finger back at someone when busted in a lie?
The best advice anyone can take from this blog entry is to be on your best behavior while dating, but also stay true to who you are! One shouldn't have to find out the hard way that someone sold them a bag of goods just to get immediate needs met. The pretty woman should stay pretty for as long as she can. The ugly man should stay nice for as long as he can. Don't change the script, so to speak, without telling your date in advance so that he or she won't be shocked. Far too many women wear fake items to enhance their beauty and far too many older men take medicines that make their bodies behave in ways that are unreal. Once all the glitz and glamour and male enhancements wear off, you are left with your true self! Now who is deceiving who?
Nicholl McGuire
Most experts will tell you that men are visual creatures who like to look at attractive women. Well, I will have to say that women like to look at nice looking men too, but beauty isn't high on our list. We can date unattractive men as long as they have other things that attract us to them like a nice body, voice, intelligent, kind, caring, etc. With that said, a younger woman who thinks that she can go from a 10 to a 5 while dating an older man who she feels comfortable with is going to find herself in trouble one day like an ugly, nice man thinking that it's okay to start acting mean now that he has the pretty woman.
How you begin a dating relationship is going to set the foundation for the future. People lose interest quickly when the packaged goods is not what they expected they would be once they have invested in them. If the younger woman advertises, "Fun and sexy with no strings attached." What do you think that older man who stumbles across her profile is going to want from the day he meets her and beyond? So a future of marriage, not likely, if she so desires that kind of relationship with him one day. If the younger woman displays an ad that says, "Christian single seeking an older man who loves God..." She is going to expect that older man to have a faith and attend church with her. Now if he starts going to the club or bar, the relationship is over.
We must be careful what messages we convey to others especially if we are seeking our ideal mate. We also have to be willing to keep up with our image as best we can. The people who have the hardest time maintaining who they are and what they represent are those who are not sincerely what they claim to be. If the older man claims that he is active and outgoing in the beginning of th dating relationship, yet when he starts dating the younger woman, she discovers he is the total opposite of what he says, the younger woman is going to feel deceived and call him out on his false advertising. Why lie or cover who you really are? Why point the finger back at someone when busted in a lie?
The best advice anyone can take from this blog entry is to be on your best behavior while dating, but also stay true to who you are! One shouldn't have to find out the hard way that someone sold them a bag of goods just to get immediate needs met. The pretty woman should stay pretty for as long as she can. The ugly man should stay nice for as long as he can. Don't change the script, so to speak, without telling your date in advance so that he or she won't be shocked. Far too many women wear fake items to enhance their beauty and far too many older men take medicines that make their bodies behave in ways that are unreal. Once all the glitz and glamour and male enhancements wear off, you are left with your true self! Now who is deceiving who?
Nicholl McGuire
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