Over 24 and Considered "Too Old" for the Old Guy While He Let's Himself Go
Everyone is entitled to his or her dating preferences. If you like them young and you are 50 plus so be it. If you like them old and you are 20 plus, that's your prerogative. But what isn't cool is when one is vicious about calling women, who are still relatively young, old when he (or she) is visually and physically old. What nerve some have? It's almost laughable to see someone who is out of shape, miserable, and often weary from a cozy office job talk about what women, younger than he, look like and how he only dates younger, sexy and beautiful women.
It's time for attractive women whether young or old to raise the bar! Far too many ladies are settling for men who don't bother to keep themselves up. They tolerate, not only an unattractive looking guy, but sometimes those who could barely take care of themselves financially much less a woman. Is it really hard to meet people in the dating world or is the Internet just too d*mn convenient to get hooked up with whoever whenever?
A woman whether over 24 or younger is still a human being that can be a good friend or your worst nightmare depending on how you treat her. She can shower a mature man she is really into with much love and kindness as long as he respects her, but the day he doesn't, her personality changes and things are typically never the same. If the old guy insults his date with comments about how old she is, what she knows or doesn't know for her age, or makes comments about certain parts of her anatomy getting "older," he will eventually kiss that partner goodbye. You can only get away with saying so much if you are fit yourself, attractive, and successful.
Nicholl McGuire also contributes to Relationship and Dating Advice blog here.