They are youthful, exciting and have a lot to talk about,
young women who laugh more than they cry can make any man fall head over heels
in love with them. But when you are a self-centered
mature man, settled—caught up in routines, in time, you will be annoyed with
all the energy that some young women bring to the relationship.
At first it doesn’t seem to bother you, her smiling often,
but over time you find yourself starting to feel uneasy. You begin to wonder if there is something
wrong with you or maybe with her. “Can
someone be this happy all the time?”
Rather, you should be asking, “Why am I so cranky?” The young bubbly woman seems so much happier
and optimistic about the future, but you, not so much.
Casting all doubt aside and unresolved issues of the past,
face it, you just might not be her type.
Why force a round peg into a square hole? But what do some mature men do? Try too hard to impress in the beginning of
the relationship only to later become weary and unemotional toward a younger
woman’s advances, requests and desire to be heard. “It’s not her, it’s me…” he should be telling
himself. But years of playing the blame game
skews his vision and all he sees is that wide smile that he can’t muster on his
face asking him to, “Try this…Why don’t we go there…What’s wrong?” while
hearing her irksome laughter in his head.
Some men just shouldn’t waste a young woman’s time. Think: she has her life ahead. Why slow her down with unnecessary requests
to get her to change who she is? “Do you
have to talk so much, honey? Are you
always like this so cheery? I wish I had
your energy…” he says. So she likes to
go, go, go and giggle, giggle, giggle.
Isn’t that what you liked about her?
Why expect her to be anything different?
Maybe you use to be young and fun once, but these days that just isn’t
you. Why not be the bigger person and
end the relationship so that you can find someone with less energy, you know
someone more like yourself. Don’t worry
over making her cry. Besides, she might
be thinking, “He is such a grumpy man.
Wonder how I can get out of this one?”
There are those men who just don’t get it when it comes to
dating younger women, one size (personality) doesn’t fit all. No matter how many relatives, friends,
co-workers, talk shows, articles, and more that are out there that scream at
you, “Stay away from younger women, you are no match for them” some men will
try to date them anyway. Men, who just
aren’t out-going and don’t like to do much but work and periodically have sex should
stick to their own age group or alone especially if the slightest remark,
question, or joke bothers them. Most menopausal
single women get it, that’s why some prefer to be alone. They avoid both young and older men. “It’s just too much work to date,” some
say.
Far too many young women have had their poor hearts broken
waiting for some mature men to get their act together. They sold them a good sales pitch in the
beginning of the dating relationship only to let these women down, shame on
them! Unfortunately, some of these young
women overlooked the old adage which says, “You can’t teach an old dog new
tricks” too!
When you know you have a long pattern of reckless dating and
many stories that include phrases such as: “I didn’t like…couldn’t get along…wish things
were different…” it’s time to take that pause in one’s life and ask yourself
this question, “What the #$%^ am I doing?”
I’m sure the women your own age were thinking the same thing.
Nicholl McGuire
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