Sometimes age gap couples make the kind of connections online or offline that are way over their heads. They realize they are playing with fire when people are being emotionally and/or physically wounded. But some of the most difficult arrangements are those where someone is hurting his or herself.
Not everyone is mentally stable when they seek a partner for just fun times or a life long commitment. The evidence is usually prevalent early on, but many people dismiss what they see and hear. The drinks continue to pour at parties, drugs are used, and sexual acts that would make an audience gasp are performed in a miserable relationship or arrangement. Some people believe that they can walk away from almost anything with minds and hearts intact, but that isn't always the case.
For example, the troubled, young abused woman might not go away easily and the wealthy, controlling man might not leave her alone when he should. A whirlwind romance goes full steam ahead before crashing. Sometimes these toxic connections end up being nothing more than funerals.
Death is a harsh reality and a wake up call especially when you know someone has pushed his or herself beyond the limits of imagination while inflicting all sorts of pain upon an already wounded soul.
It isn't always a person with a shady past found guilty, but sometimes the only one at fault is the broken heart looking to fulfill a void within by any means necessary.
Nicholl McGuire
Saturday
Mariah Carey, Tommy Mottola & Sony : Life As A Porcelain Doll
There is always more than meets the eye, visit site about the unusual, strange and different. Celebrities lead the parade of all sorts of odd behaviors.
Friday
Writers, Bloggers, Video Creators...Dating Older Men, Younger Women?
He is sexy, sweet and smart. She is unique, fun, and beautiful!
The May-December romance is in full bloom. But as we all know sometimes
what goes up, goes down. Do you have something to share about dating older men
or younger women? Then let us feature you on this site!
We welcome all shapes, sizes, ethnicities, etc. Tell our audience about your challenges and share solutions. Send correspondence to nichollmcguire@gmail.com today.
Our audience enjoys reading content that can help them with their relationships and dating blues.
Thursday
Welcome to this Age Gap Dating Site Between Mature Men and Young Women
For those who are in love with an older man or curious as well as others who enjoy dating or married to young women, you will enjoy the content on this blog. Much is thought-provoking, fun, serious, and also liberating. So take a moment to check out whatever might be on interest. This information is timeless and very useful especially if you are new to May-December romance. Enjoy!
Nicholl McGuire
Nicholl McGuire
Wednesday
Tuesday
Dating Advice: Should You Pursue The Guy
Check out a book about abusive men by author Nicholl McGuire. Know the signs before pursuing any man!
Friday
You Were Warned...She Crossed the Line - Bad Online Date - Young Women
The Blog Owner reading out of her book, "She's Crazy" by Nicholl McGuire. This nonfiction guide is for men in abusive relationships where the women are the batterers. She's Crazy Book Excerpt
Thursday
Young Woman Watch for the Seemingly Rich, Older Man with Many Hang-ups
The major issue above all for the
aging male is his personal failures. Those things that he doesn't
want to come right out and say but from the looks of things we can
see he is making up for something by the way he spends, shares,
invests, and talks about his money, family, employment, and other
issues. I noticed this after years of watching mature kinfolk act in
unreasonable and illogical ways when it came to dealing with personal
challenges. They would allude to goals that were never reached like
increasing finances and owning homes, accomplishments that were never
rewarded by employers, regrets regarding ruining family connections,
the regrets of not taking opportunities when given a chance and more.
Their need to make them feel good about what they should have, could
have done propelled some of the once brightest and honest minds into
murky waters.
There is an insatiable desire in some seemingly kind men to want bigger and better. Mr. Charmer sometimes looks to obtain whatever is suitable for him without regard to loved ones' feelings. He is open to making drastic career changes, divorce, abandon children, and more "to make some things happen." A man, spoiled with riches, yet doesn't feel he has enough money, material assets, and other things might feel more tempted to take major financial risks, steal from his employer(s) or hoard his money than a man that is use to living paycheck to paycheck.
The greedy man feels he must present himself to the world as being more successful than fellowmen, a great catch for the ladies, an influential business mogul, etc. He will creatively change his external world to reflect his vision as best he can even if he participates in dishonest practices to finance his illusions and even at the cost of possibly his freedom and family. It is at that middle point in the mature male's life (40 plus) that this charmer has achieved more than a promotion, degree, and a sports car, but he has become a master deceiver. Men like this have decades experience fooling people. They continue to manipulate the unsuspecting about things related to their personal and professional lives and they are quite believable.
Some of these white-collar charmers begged, borrowed and stole to make themselves appear like they are knowledgeable, good, mature, dependable, honest, and other faux character traits to depict them. These men enjoy being admired more than they do working. Self-absorbed men feed off of anyone who shows them any attention as mentioned in earlier chapters. So they will partner with those who love riches like they do, and who are wiling to go above and beyond the call of duty for them. Sometimes those closest to these manipulators know what is happening when they are being mistreated and other times they are unaware, because slick people like this can sting you in such a way that you don't know you are being stung until it is too late.
Excerpt from Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men by Nicholl McGuire
There is an insatiable desire in some seemingly kind men to want bigger and better. Mr. Charmer sometimes looks to obtain whatever is suitable for him without regard to loved ones' feelings. He is open to making drastic career changes, divorce, abandon children, and more "to make some things happen." A man, spoiled with riches, yet doesn't feel he has enough money, material assets, and other things might feel more tempted to take major financial risks, steal from his employer(s) or hoard his money than a man that is use to living paycheck to paycheck.
The greedy man feels he must present himself to the world as being more successful than fellowmen, a great catch for the ladies, an influential business mogul, etc. He will creatively change his external world to reflect his vision as best he can even if he participates in dishonest practices to finance his illusions and even at the cost of possibly his freedom and family. It is at that middle point in the mature male's life (40 plus) that this charmer has achieved more than a promotion, degree, and a sports car, but he has become a master deceiver. Men like this have decades experience fooling people. They continue to manipulate the unsuspecting about things related to their personal and professional lives and they are quite believable.
Some of these white-collar charmers begged, borrowed and stole to make themselves appear like they are knowledgeable, good, mature, dependable, honest, and other faux character traits to depict them. These men enjoy being admired more than they do working. Self-absorbed men feed off of anyone who shows them any attention as mentioned in earlier chapters. So they will partner with those who love riches like they do, and who are wiling to go above and beyond the call of duty for them. Sometimes those closest to these manipulators know what is happening when they are being mistreated and other times they are unaware, because slick people like this can sting you in such a way that you don't know you are being stung until it is too late.
Excerpt from Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men by Nicholl McGuire
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