If You Feel Bored in a Relationship, then You Should Stay and Think Don't be so quick to make a move just because you are bored. Article provides useful things to help you reach a conclusion whether it is indeed boredom or something else.
Thursday
Getting a Divorce to Be with the Young Lady
Your secret is safe with me, I'm not telling. But the issue of divorce is something that many of us faced in the past. The thoughts came into mind soon after the holidays came to an end and then by spring the paperwork was delivered. For any number of reasons men and women say, goodbye to the past and hello to the future.
It may appear as if things are just great once the decision is reached to discontinue a current relationship. However, some people just don't understand that when people warn, "The grass isn't greener..." they mean it. It starts off a plush green, but in time it wears out, gets old and turns yellow. Without turning the grass over, planting some new seed, and maintaining the ground, there will be no plush green grass anymore. Instead, there will be holes, bald spots, bugs, and an unsightly look left behind. Isn't this partly the reason why the marriage grew stale in the first place? Off to go explore new pasture.
A young lady can be nice, sexy, smart, and special, but one must remember she is young. One day she is going to realize just how good-looking and intelligent she is and how much life she has in front of her. She will want to see what more is out there. No matter what she says, her heart will eventually tell her different. Why take a risk with a wishy-washy young person if a marriage might be saved?
Far too many men have prematurely ended savable marriages only to later find that if only they had been more focused on what was happening on the home-front and less distracted from what was at work, in the parking lot, on the computer screen, or at the local business maybe a wife would still be around.
Divorce has long-lasting effects while sexy and sex is temporal. Be sure that you are willing to take care of your ex and the young lady, because both will be expecting something sooner or later that starts with a dollar sign and ends with zeros.
Nicholl McGuire
It may appear as if things are just great once the decision is reached to discontinue a current relationship. However, some people just don't understand that when people warn, "The grass isn't greener..." they mean it. It starts off a plush green, but in time it wears out, gets old and turns yellow. Without turning the grass over, planting some new seed, and maintaining the ground, there will be no plush green grass anymore. Instead, there will be holes, bald spots, bugs, and an unsightly look left behind. Isn't this partly the reason why the marriage grew stale in the first place? Off to go explore new pasture.
A young lady can be nice, sexy, smart, and special, but one must remember she is young. One day she is going to realize just how good-looking and intelligent she is and how much life she has in front of her. She will want to see what more is out there. No matter what she says, her heart will eventually tell her different. Why take a risk with a wishy-washy young person if a marriage might be saved?
Far too many men have prematurely ended savable marriages only to later find that if only they had been more focused on what was happening on the home-front and less distracted from what was at work, in the parking lot, on the computer screen, or at the local business maybe a wife would still be around.
Divorce has long-lasting effects while sexy and sex is temporal. Be sure that you are willing to take care of your ex and the young lady, because both will be expecting something sooner or later that starts with a dollar sign and ends with zeros.
Nicholl McGuire
Tuesday
When the Young Woman is Rude, Restless and Miserable
The writing is on the wall, she isn't much interested in her older partner like she once was. The young woman talks rudely to him whether behind closed doors or in the public. She often feels bored in the relationship. In addition, her date has a good way of making her feel miserable when she is with him frequently complaining about something, acting critical of her, and showing well, his age.
The older man may not care too much about the way his lady friend feels since she still has sex with him every now and then. But in time, he is going to grow weary of his date's negative attitude and may end the relationship--that is if she doesn't do it first.
When the young woman reaches a point of no return in an age gap relationship, it's not so much that she hates the man she is with, but she is disappointed at the change that has taken place between them. Older men don't remain the same, they age and so do young women.
What use to be fun, unique and interesting a year or more ago may not be anymore for any number of factors between the couple. One would have to sit down with his or her partner to find out what has happened--that is if you still want to be in the relationship.
Nicholl McGuire also contributes to a dating blog here.
The older man may not care too much about the way his lady friend feels since she still has sex with him every now and then. But in time, he is going to grow weary of his date's negative attitude and may end the relationship--that is if she doesn't do it first.
When the young woman reaches a point of no return in an age gap relationship, it's not so much that she hates the man she is with, but she is disappointed at the change that has taken place between them. Older men don't remain the same, they age and so do young women.
What use to be fun, unique and interesting a year or more ago may not be anymore for any number of factors between the couple. One would have to sit down with his or her partner to find out what has happened--that is if you still want to be in the relationship.
Nicholl McGuire also contributes to a dating blog here.
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