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Chasing Young Women - When the Older Man Has Had Enough
He may have dated many young women, had sex with them, bought them, and kicked them out when they stepped out of line, but as he grows older, he no longer finds them worth chasing. Sure, the rich, older guy has some good memories, enjoyed their company, and learned some new things, but a man who has outgrew loveless relationships and has more important things on his mind, isn't the least bit interested in entertaining or being entertained by young women.
Yet, some women think they can make a fool of an older guy by flashing him with a smile like many have done before, show off yet another pair of boobs, a behind in a tight skirt, long shapely legs, and high heels. They will share their material requests in the hopes that he will honor them. There was that time in his life he would have bedded these young women, gave them some cash, and sent them back home to boyfriends, but not anymore. Times are indeed changing for the older gent.
Sometimes a man doesn't have to experience a mid-life crisis in order to reach a place in his life where he reflects on his haves and have-nots. Rather, he simply ponders on what more he has to do before he closes his eyes. Although he is grateful for those good times of chasing women, he realizes that he has other roles in his life that have fallen by the wayside during those skirt-chasing days. For some men, they have sons that need to see what an honest, upright, confident, and educated man looks like and daughters in need of their fathers. So they know that showing off their weakness for sex wouldn't be a good idea when a boy is ready to become a man while a daughter is trying to learn more about men. Chances are his son has already took in more than a few scents of girls/women and is ready to learn more about what life has to offer besides sex and sports. As for his daughter, she most likely have already cried her first tears over a boy or man. But who is there to teach sons and daughters when an old guy is distracted by trivial things?
Older men, who have various health issues, know that life hasn't been too kind to them during their days of partying. They are well aware that their final days will soon come to an end, so they intend to make the most of them without additional stress coming from young or old women. They hope to live the kind of lifestyle that they and their relatives will no longer feel ashamed about. So they clean up their act, visit a church, read a good book or two, and try to live righteously.
Unsuspecting young women who believe that all they need to do to keep a mature, rich gentleman is dress themselves up and be willing to do what he asks, are surprised when, without notice, their lovers no longer have need of them. They question what might be wrong, wonder if they have done something to offend them, or think their men have met other young women. However, for some of these men they simply have had enough of living a lie or conducting themselves in a way that they no longer find fulfilling. If the young woman should attempt to make the older guy change his mind about a life change, she might catch his wrath. A determined man that desires change, can also be an evil one. He doesn't want to be talked out of how he feels and the things he wants to do without her.
Most men, both young and old, are just not like the way they are portrayed on television screens wanting nothing more than a remote and a hot chick. They really aren't that interested in having their lives dominated by pretty women even though many believe such nonsense. In addition, they are not all that willing to spend their money on someone else either especially once they have retired. An attractive, young woman is like a Christmas tree, she might come out every now and then to be admired, touched, decorated, and more, but she isn't meant to be the center of the mature guy's life on a daily basis particularly when he knows he is unwilling to put the money and time in to keep her looking and feeling beautiful.
Nicholl McGuire
Yet, some women think they can make a fool of an older guy by flashing him with a smile like many have done before, show off yet another pair of boobs, a behind in a tight skirt, long shapely legs, and high heels. They will share their material requests in the hopes that he will honor them. There was that time in his life he would have bedded these young women, gave them some cash, and sent them back home to boyfriends, but not anymore. Times are indeed changing for the older gent.
Sometimes a man doesn't have to experience a mid-life crisis in order to reach a place in his life where he reflects on his haves and have-nots. Rather, he simply ponders on what more he has to do before he closes his eyes. Although he is grateful for those good times of chasing women, he realizes that he has other roles in his life that have fallen by the wayside during those skirt-chasing days. For some men, they have sons that need to see what an honest, upright, confident, and educated man looks like and daughters in need of their fathers. So they know that showing off their weakness for sex wouldn't be a good idea when a boy is ready to become a man while a daughter is trying to learn more about men. Chances are his son has already took in more than a few scents of girls/women and is ready to learn more about what life has to offer besides sex and sports. As for his daughter, she most likely have already cried her first tears over a boy or man. But who is there to teach sons and daughters when an old guy is distracted by trivial things?
Older men, who have various health issues, know that life hasn't been too kind to them during their days of partying. They are well aware that their final days will soon come to an end, so they intend to make the most of them without additional stress coming from young or old women. They hope to live the kind of lifestyle that they and their relatives will no longer feel ashamed about. So they clean up their act, visit a church, read a good book or two, and try to live righteously.
Unsuspecting young women who believe that all they need to do to keep a mature, rich gentleman is dress themselves up and be willing to do what he asks, are surprised when, without notice, their lovers no longer have need of them. They question what might be wrong, wonder if they have done something to offend them, or think their men have met other young women. However, for some of these men they simply have had enough of living a lie or conducting themselves in a way that they no longer find fulfilling. If the young woman should attempt to make the older guy change his mind about a life change, she might catch his wrath. A determined man that desires change, can also be an evil one. He doesn't want to be talked out of how he feels and the things he wants to do without her.
Most men, both young and old, are just not like the way they are portrayed on television screens wanting nothing more than a remote and a hot chick. They really aren't that interested in having their lives dominated by pretty women even though many believe such nonsense. In addition, they are not all that willing to spend their money on someone else either especially once they have retired. An attractive, young woman is like a Christmas tree, she might come out every now and then to be admired, touched, decorated, and more, but she isn't meant to be the center of the mature guy's life on a daily basis particularly when he knows he is unwilling to put the money and time in to keep her looking and feeling beautiful.
Nicholl McGuire
Monday
In and Out of Love with Someone Older
It is a great feeling when you finally meet someone you are compatible with. The individual is mature, attractive, wealthy, and enjoys your company. You are happy with your selection and look forward to the future. Of course, there are those issues that come up as you learn more about a lover--the kind of things that will stop the butterflies from fluttering in your stomach. As a young person, you will discover that as much as you would like to remain in a bubble concerning the mature person you are dating, there will be those not-so appealing things about him or her that will burst your bubble.
Being in love with someone older doesn't have to be one of those things that stops, feelings for someone can go on and on if you let them. If your focus is on the positive and your partner is willing to remain faithful to you, you can continue to be in love. When one is kind and respectful to his or her partner and the actions are reciprocated, then there are no worries about the relationship. But those people in relationships that tend to have many concerns about their age gap partnership is due to the way they are being treated by their mates. If a partner is rude, impatient, unkind, and frugal, then there isn't any wonder why things aren't working out.
To be in love with anyone, not just someone a decade or two older, one must be willing to do the kind of things that will keep a partner interested in being with him or her and vice versa. Yet, for some mature people, they simply don't have the energy or time to devote to another human being after spending years of dating and being married to one or more than a few. As a result, some will not stay interested in being with a young partner for long. Those that are burnt out with relationships and all that comes with them, find them meaningless, temporary, sex tiring, conversation mundane, and so on. It doesn't matter how young, nice or compatible, when a mature person isn't interested in being in a relationship there will be enough signs to let you know. With such a negative view when it comes to settling down with yet another partner, an older person (or young person) experiencing such feelings is far from being in love. If anything, he or she should get out of the relationship as soon as possible before causing anymore damage.
Selfish, negative people steal joy. They don't permit others to love in the way they so desire. They can be difficult, angry people who often disagree, fault-find, and hate various people, places and things for any number of reasons. Unfortunately, the older some people get, the worse they can be. This is why some mature men and women are unable to keep young partners (or those the same age), because they are uncomfortable with the aging process, unhappy with life decisions, and bitter because they didn't accomplish goals over the years. They don't find getting older a good experience especially when a young person is able to remember more things than they, have the patience for new technology, and enjoy learning new things. Some can be quite jealous of young people because they have plenty of time to get things right, so they assume.
Once it is discovered that there are far too many differences in personalities and years, the couple will eventually separate. Whatever drew them together, no longer is strong enough to keep them together.
The process of breaking up might be difficult at first for the older as well as young person, but in time both will be content with knowing they made a good decision. It is never a good idea to stick it out with someone you know you are no longer in love, like or lust with.
Nicholl McGuire
Being in love with someone older doesn't have to be one of those things that stops, feelings for someone can go on and on if you let them. If your focus is on the positive and your partner is willing to remain faithful to you, you can continue to be in love. When one is kind and respectful to his or her partner and the actions are reciprocated, then there are no worries about the relationship. But those people in relationships that tend to have many concerns about their age gap partnership is due to the way they are being treated by their mates. If a partner is rude, impatient, unkind, and frugal, then there isn't any wonder why things aren't working out.
To be in love with anyone, not just someone a decade or two older, one must be willing to do the kind of things that will keep a partner interested in being with him or her and vice versa. Yet, for some mature people, they simply don't have the energy or time to devote to another human being after spending years of dating and being married to one or more than a few. As a result, some will not stay interested in being with a young partner for long. Those that are burnt out with relationships and all that comes with them, find them meaningless, temporary, sex tiring, conversation mundane, and so on. It doesn't matter how young, nice or compatible, when a mature person isn't interested in being in a relationship there will be enough signs to let you know. With such a negative view when it comes to settling down with yet another partner, an older person (or young person) experiencing such feelings is far from being in love. If anything, he or she should get out of the relationship as soon as possible before causing anymore damage.
Selfish, negative people steal joy. They don't permit others to love in the way they so desire. They can be difficult, angry people who often disagree, fault-find, and hate various people, places and things for any number of reasons. Unfortunately, the older some people get, the worse they can be. This is why some mature men and women are unable to keep young partners (or those the same age), because they are uncomfortable with the aging process, unhappy with life decisions, and bitter because they didn't accomplish goals over the years. They don't find getting older a good experience especially when a young person is able to remember more things than they, have the patience for new technology, and enjoy learning new things. Some can be quite jealous of young people because they have plenty of time to get things right, so they assume.
Once it is discovered that there are far too many differences in personalities and years, the couple will eventually separate. Whatever drew them together, no longer is strong enough to keep them together.
The process of breaking up might be difficult at first for the older as well as young person, but in time both will be content with knowing they made a good decision. It is never a good idea to stick it out with someone you know you are no longer in love, like or lust with.
Nicholl McGuire
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