A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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Thursday
Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
Here's a good example why you should do more observing and less talking when you date a rich, older man, you might learn a thing or two like his lifestyle is incompatible with yours.
Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
When Dating Bubbly, Talkative Young Women Just Isn’t Working for You
They are youthful, exciting and have a lot to talk about,
young women who laugh more than they cry can make any man fall head over heels
in love with them. But when you are a self-centered
mature man, settled—caught up in routines, in time, you will be annoyed with
all the energy that some young women bring to the relationship.
At first it doesn’t seem to bother you, her smiling often,
but over time you find yourself starting to feel uneasy. You begin to wonder if there is something
wrong with you or maybe with her. “Can
someone be this happy all the time?”
Rather, you should be asking, “Why am I so cranky?” The young bubbly woman seems so much happier
and optimistic about the future, but you, not so much.
Casting all doubt aside and unresolved issues of the past,
face it, you just might not be her type.
Why force a round peg into a square hole? But what do some mature men do? Try too hard to impress in the beginning of
the relationship only to later become weary and unemotional toward a younger
woman’s advances, requests and desire to be heard. “It’s not her, it’s me…” he should be telling
himself. But years of playing the blame game
skews his vision and all he sees is that wide smile that he can’t muster on his
face asking him to, “Try this…Why don’t we go there…What’s wrong?” while
hearing her irksome laughter in his head.
Some men just shouldn’t waste a young woman’s time. Think: she has her life ahead. Why slow her down with unnecessary requests
to get her to change who she is? “Do you
have to talk so much, honey? Are you
always like this so cheery? I wish I had
your energy…” he says. So she likes to
go, go, go and giggle, giggle, giggle.
Isn’t that what you liked about her?
Why expect her to be anything different?
Maybe you use to be young and fun once, but these days that just isn’t
you. Why not be the bigger person and
end the relationship so that you can find someone with less energy, you know
someone more like yourself. Don’t worry
over making her cry. Besides, she might
be thinking, “He is such a grumpy man.
Wonder how I can get out of this one?”
There are those men who just don’t get it when it comes to
dating younger women, one size (personality) doesn’t fit all. No matter how many relatives, friends,
co-workers, talk shows, articles, and more that are out there that scream at
you, “Stay away from younger women, you are no match for them” some men will
try to date them anyway. Men, who just
aren’t out-going and don’t like to do much but work and periodically have sex should
stick to their own age group or alone especially if the slightest remark,
question, or joke bothers them. Most menopausal
single women get it, that’s why some prefer to be alone. They avoid both young and older men. “It’s just too much work to date,” some
say.
Far too many young women have had their poor hearts broken
waiting for some mature men to get their act together. They sold them a good sales pitch in the
beginning of the dating relationship only to let these women down, shame on
them! Unfortunately, some of these young
women overlooked the old adage which says, “You can’t teach an old dog new
tricks” too!
When you know you have a long pattern of reckless dating and
many stories that include phrases such as: “I didn’t like…couldn’t get along…wish things
were different…” it’s time to take that pause in one’s life and ask yourself
this question, “What the #$%^ am I doing?”
I’m sure the women your own age were thinking the same thing.
Nicholl McGuire
Saturday
Friday
Young Women: Don't Prostitute Yourself to be with a Mature Man, Men Don't Pay a Young Woman for Sex
Some women strategically plan to be with certain men because of their wealth. Unfortunately, they put their selves in a similar position of a prostitute. Listen to this audio and be enlightened.
Prostitution Bible Study & Commentary - YouTube
Prostitution Bible Study & Commentary - YouTube
Wednesday
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
I thought why not put up another article that talks about why dating an older men is awesome! If someone is feeling down about his age, maybe this young lady will perk you up (take your mind out the gutter!--LOL)
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
Six Problems With Dating Older Men | Clutch Magazine
You've got to love articles that get straight to the point like the following one. I must admit, I laughed at this one, because I could relate. Thank God, all older men aren't like the ones this writer describes. Click here: Six Problems With Dating Older Men | Clutch Magazine
Tuesday
Younger Guy Wanted to Know, Why You Dating Old Men?
If you are a younger woman, you may have been asked, "Why do you like dating older men?" by guys or gals about your age and younger. How do you answer such a question or do you even bother? Whether it is your personal preference, that's all you seem to attract, or simply maturity, your choice not theirs. I came across one website that attempts to answer this question. Read here.
Monday
What Some People Say About Men with Younger Women
You don’t mean to stare at the unusual pair walking by, but
you do. Yet, when you are the one in a
peculiar relationship, you are wondering, “Why does it seem like everyone is
looking at my date and I?” Then you
think, “What could they be thinking?”
Sometimes people aren’t really concerned about what others are
doing. But there are those, who love to
people watch and they are thinking the ever-popular question, “What is she
doing with him?” among other things.
“She is only with him for the money.”
You knew this statement was coming and if you are the one
with the money you might be thinking, “Well is she?” Discuss the issue amongst yourselves, but
definitely don’t allow others to talk about it with you. Most often people who are already receiving
money from the mature partner will raise the red flag on the relationship,
because they fear that they will no longer receive any money now that the
mature partner is seeing this younger woman.
“He is too old to be dating someone her age – he’s robbing
the cradle.”
Is he really too old or is she too young? Well to some people maybe this comment is
cause for concern, especially if someone skipped out on their marriage, dating
a child etc. but if none of which applies to your relationship, why bother
responding?
“What do her parents think about her dating someone much
older?”
This may be a concern for a few due to personal reasons or
because they are concerned the younger partner might not be legal age. But does it really matter?
“I wouldn’t date someone my son or daughter’s age and
definitely not my dad’s.”
As we all know who we choose to date is our personal
business. However, some critics can’t
help but comment because they know they don’t have the courage or interest in
dating someone younger or older.
Responding to a comment like this is a waste of time. If you do, you will look immature and the
naysayer just might feel good watching you react negatively. Just ignore this person or better yet get it
understood early on, especially if this person is a relative, to exercise a
little self-control over their tongue if he or she wants to keep you in his or
her life.
“She must not have a close relationship with her father.”
Some people assume the worse, because they have heard of
stories where young women have specifically dated older men because their own
fathers didn’t meet their needs. Maybe
this happens for many younger women dating older men, but not all. If you are a younger woman who doesn’t have a
close relationship with your dad and you feel that it is affecting your
relationship with your partner, maybe you might want to consider independent
counseling, reconnecting with your father if you can, or sitting down with
someone who knows him well to get answers to unresolved issues. If you are the mature partner, you may want
to watch for signs that she is in fact using you to fill a role in her life
that wasn’t met by her dad. If so, then
you may want to discuss your concerns.
“He is going through a mid-life crisis (andropause) that’s
why he is with her.”
Dating younger women is something that many men who have severe
symptoms of andropause do, but once again there are exceptions to the rule. A younger woman will want to observe her mate
and watch for signs if she suspects that possibly she is one of many of her
older partner’s andropause symptoms.
“Why do older men always go after younger women?”
This statement is usually said by women who feel insecure,
jealous and angered about past issues.
Others are simply curious. When
some younger women hear a comment like this, it might work for or against her
self-esteem depending on how committed she is to the relationship. She may ask the same thing of the older man
or wonder what he sees in her. Her
partner will have to say the kind of things to keep her interested and secure
in the relationship.
“I was never interested in dating men my dad’s age or older,
that’s crazy!”
Younger people can sometimes be the harshest critics of a
relationship between a younger woman and an older man. Oftentimes those who say this are still very
immature, so they couldn’t fathom the thought.
If this comment is stated enough by friends, it might cause a younger
woman, who isn’t so sure about dating an older man, to want to break up.
“He probably left his wife and children to be with her. He will probably go back to the wife once he
gets tired of her.”
This comment can really hurt a younger woman’s feelings
particularly if she is head over heels in love with her mature mate. So when she hears this, she might start to
wonder if in fact he would get back with an ex.
Hopefully, the man isn’t married, but if he is, you might want to cut
your losses early.
Thursday
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