Monday
Dating Rich Older Men - What Younger, Needy Women Don't Think About
When a young lady seeks to date a man who makes much money, what she doesn't realize is that he isn't going to be as available to her emotionally and possibly physically as she might imagine. The young woman is in for a rude awakening if she thinks that dating or marrying an older man will always consist of exotic travel and jaw-dropping shopping sprees.
I got the opportunity to speak to women who date older men and they were at times naïve when it came to talking about them. They were like giddy school girls who just saw a handsome boy walk by them. The eyes brightened, the speech sped up, and their bodies moved around a bit as if excited to talk about the subject. These women didn't think too much about the possibility of future disappointments like their allowances or gifts being cut off one day by their rich dates. They were too busy thinking about those promises their guys made such as plans to attend special events, give them gifts and eat at five star restaurants.
Most rich, older men don't abandon jobs, forget about children (and sometimes exes), and they aren't thinking too much about keeping a sexual partner around for too long. Instead they enjoy the "in the meantime" experience with an attractive, young lady and then on to the next best thing. Workaholic older men are too busy thinking about jobs and money to care much about a lover's feeling, accomplishments, and other things that matter. The selfish simply want their periodic sexual desires met with no strings attached. It isn't any wonder why many are divorced--the "it's all about me" philosophy doesn't go well with marriage, children, and household responsibilities.
The wealthy but cheap older men spend a great deal of time in doors on off days. They don't like going out much because all that means is more money spent that they prefer to save. Some young women are blind-sided by this type because they start off treating them so well, but in time the newness wears off and the older men's true selves begin to show especially after they have received what they wanted, sex with a beautiful woman and companionship. When things become dull, they grow weary of dating and relationships. So they give their all back to jobs or businesses while the gullible women check their phones hoping to hearing from them. "Could he be back with his wife? What am I going to do, he doesn't send any money anymore? I was starting to fall for that guy..."
What many gullible women overlook, at least initially during the early dating stages, are the self-absorbed attributes in successful men. They are consumed with getting their needs met from the start. The signs aren't easily recognized because these men tend to attract women like themselves. Selfish women are too busy focused on themselves to pay any attention to warning signs that a date might be trouble. When a woman is immature and desperate for things like: attention, money and sex, she won't think too much about how she is treated until her needs are no longer being met. "What's up with him? He use to be so nice. He gave me whatever I wanted! Now he is so mean!"
Dating rich older men is a bit different than dating broke, younger men. The men who know they can buy just about anyone or anything, expect to be pleased. So they want more for their time and money than a broken man who is just happy being with a head-turner 10.
Young women who date rich put up with things that other women wouldn't even consider. This is because most women are looking for more in a relationship besides money and gifts, but not the 10 looking for a 10. She wants cash, business, opportunities, and whatever else that rich man can afford to give her!
Since many successful men know that most people are after their cash, property, etc. they are going to be guarded and will not always come off as nice and accommodating especially when they are aware of a young woman's motives
. Whether you are rich and older or young and broke, know that whatever your intention if it isn't good, expect to be taken advantage of sooner or later.
Nicholl McGuire maintains this blog and is the author of She's Crazy (a book for battered men).
I got the opportunity to speak to women who date older men and they were at times naïve when it came to talking about them. They were like giddy school girls who just saw a handsome boy walk by them. The eyes brightened, the speech sped up, and their bodies moved around a bit as if excited to talk about the subject. These women didn't think too much about the possibility of future disappointments like their allowances or gifts being cut off one day by their rich dates. They were too busy thinking about those promises their guys made such as plans to attend special events, give them gifts and eat at five star restaurants.
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Most rich, older men don't abandon jobs, forget about children (and sometimes exes), and they aren't thinking too much about keeping a sexual partner around for too long. Instead they enjoy the "in the meantime" experience with an attractive, young lady and then on to the next best thing. Workaholic older men are too busy thinking about jobs and money to care much about a lover's feeling, accomplishments, and other things that matter. The selfish simply want their periodic sexual desires met with no strings attached. It isn't any wonder why many are divorced--the "it's all about me" philosophy doesn't go well with marriage, children, and household responsibilities.
The wealthy but cheap older men spend a great deal of time in doors on off days. They don't like going out much because all that means is more money spent that they prefer to save. Some young women are blind-sided by this type because they start off treating them so well, but in time the newness wears off and the older men's true selves begin to show especially after they have received what they wanted, sex with a beautiful woman and companionship. When things become dull, they grow weary of dating and relationships. So they give their all back to jobs or businesses while the gullible women check their phones hoping to hearing from them. "Could he be back with his wife? What am I going to do, he doesn't send any money anymore? I was starting to fall for that guy..."
What many gullible women overlook, at least initially during the early dating stages, are the self-absorbed attributes in successful men. They are consumed with getting their needs met from the start. The signs aren't easily recognized because these men tend to attract women like themselves. Selfish women are too busy focused on themselves to pay any attention to warning signs that a date might be trouble. When a woman is immature and desperate for things like: attention, money and sex, she won't think too much about how she is treated until her needs are no longer being met. "What's up with him? He use to be so nice. He gave me whatever I wanted! Now he is so mean!"
Dating rich older men is a bit different than dating broke, younger men. The men who know they can buy just about anyone or anything, expect to be pleased. So they want more for their time and money than a broken man who is just happy being with a head-turner 10.
Young women who date rich put up with things that other women wouldn't even consider. This is because most women are looking for more in a relationship besides money and gifts, but not the 10 looking for a 10. She wants cash, business, opportunities, and whatever else that rich man can afford to give her!
Since many successful men know that most people are after their cash, property, etc. they are going to be guarded and will not always come off as nice and accommodating especially when they are aware of a young woman's motives
. Whether you are rich and older or young and broke, know that whatever your intention if it isn't good, expect to be taken advantage of sooner or later.
Nicholl McGuire maintains this blog and is the author of She's Crazy (a book for battered men).
Friday
Dating Younger Women (Blog) - Does Age Really Matter?
It all depends on who you ask, "Does age really matter?" For years this blog has shared personal as well as expert opinion about dating older men and younger women. Well I can certainly tell you that those who scream the loudest that age doesn't matter, at least initially, get a rude awakening as the relationship grows older. The wider the age gap, the more differences and the more bad news you eventually find out about your older or younger partner.
There simply are things that young women just don't understand or have the mindset to deal with concerning older men. Take for instance, life experiences and personal health woes, some younger women (not all of course) can't relate to men who are having a mid-life crisis no more than mature women. Older men have their share of the blues and the only thing that some young women can think of are their own selfish needs being met.
Now what about the older men who are a bit outdated and unwise? They gravitate to young women in the hopes that they will get sex and a companion. However, it doesn't work that way in time especially if there is no sincere connection with the young lady. A number of young women feel doubtful about the May-December relationship and question what really is the older guy's motives for even considering them. "I'm broke, still learning things about life...why is he really bothering with me when he could be with someone his own age?" Whatever the reason an older male comes up with to make the inquisitive,young woman feel secure, it isn't good enough. She most likely will move on sooner or later.
The takeaway is age matters when you give the relationship some time. You will see and feel the difference.
Nicholl
There simply are things that young women just don't understand or have the mindset to deal with concerning older men. Take for instance, life experiences and personal health woes, some younger women (not all of course) can't relate to men who are having a mid-life crisis no more than mature women. Older men have their share of the blues and the only thing that some young women can think of are their own selfish needs being met.
Now what about the older men who are a bit outdated and unwise? They gravitate to young women in the hopes that they will get sex and a companion. However, it doesn't work that way in time especially if there is no sincere connection with the young lady. A number of young women feel doubtful about the May-December relationship and question what really is the older guy's motives for even considering them. "I'm broke, still learning things about life...why is he really bothering with me when he could be with someone his own age?" Whatever the reason an older male comes up with to make the inquisitive,young woman feel secure, it isn't good enough. She most likely will move on sooner or later.
The takeaway is age matters when you give the relationship some time. You will see and feel the difference.
Nicholl
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