Saturday
Prostitution is Illegal - Whatever the Name or Game - There will be Problems
Just a friendly reminder if a young lady offers a sexual service for a price and the man pays for it, she is considered a prostitute. In America, the act is illegal and unfortunately far too many people have gone to jail for soliciting sex. Learn more by clicking on the following websites:
Prostitution | Definition of prostitution by...
Sacred prostitution - Wikipedia, the free...
Prostitution Statistics - Sex Crimes | Laws.com
Be smart, stay safe.
Thursday
What the Young Woman Doesn't Think About When Having a Baby with an Older Man
There are issues that many age gap couples are aware of prior to a pregnancy and during the process when it comes to having a baby. A doctor will advise the expectant couples of the increase medical risks. A young woman with an older man might have more appointments than other expectant moms due to the age difference.
After baby is born, there just might be some unexpected issues especially if the mature gentleman's parents and siblings are much older and his family is large. One's baby might not be treated like others who were born many years prior, because folks are simply too old and weary to care for a demanding newborn who later turns into a very active two year old, an inquisitive four year old, and so on. Depending on the type of families, they may welcome the couple's new addition or not--especially if they were unsupportive about their older relative dating a younger woman or vice versa in the first place.
The family support might not be there, but the love must be strong enough to withstand the emotional roller coaster ride during and after the pregnancy. Some older men just don't have the tolerance level for the drama. Others have "been there and done that" so many times with other women that pregnancy and delivery just isn't special to them anymore. Then there are those older gentlemen who are quite excited about becoming fathers to the point that they practically snatch the sonogram photos out of the hands of their younger partners.
Money may or may not be an issue for the older man when it comes to getting the necessary care for the young lady and their newborn. But it might be a challenge gradually, because she may not be planning to return to work. However, if she does, there is childcare to consider. Typical expenses like baby food, diapers, and other needed supplies will drain one's bank account. Other expenses will arise like medicines, medical bills, insurance, holiday events, and more, so if one is ill-prepared the relationship will experience the strain. Days off of work is necessary to assist the new mother with the child.
Age gap relationships may weather the pregnancy and delivery challenges, but sometimes they don't. A man in mid-life is more interested in winding down and relaxing on most days, but this changes when the couple is expecting. A young lady may have thought she could keep up the pace at work and continue to do other things she loves, but the arrival of a baby is definitely a game-changer mentally and physically.
Although a relationship might feel quite nice, safe and secure, recognize all the factors that come into play once someone says, "I want to have a baby." Are you really ready for that? If not, protect yourself.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of When Mothers Cry and other books.
After baby is born, there just might be some unexpected issues especially if the mature gentleman's parents and siblings are much older and his family is large. One's baby might not be treated like others who were born many years prior, because folks are simply too old and weary to care for a demanding newborn who later turns into a very active two year old, an inquisitive four year old, and so on. Depending on the type of families, they may welcome the couple's new addition or not--especially if they were unsupportive about their older relative dating a younger woman or vice versa in the first place.
The family support might not be there, but the love must be strong enough to withstand the emotional roller coaster ride during and after the pregnancy. Some older men just don't have the tolerance level for the drama. Others have "been there and done that" so many times with other women that pregnancy and delivery just isn't special to them anymore. Then there are those older gentlemen who are quite excited about becoming fathers to the point that they practically snatch the sonogram photos out of the hands of their younger partners.
Money may or may not be an issue for the older man when it comes to getting the necessary care for the young lady and their newborn. But it might be a challenge gradually, because she may not be planning to return to work. However, if she does, there is childcare to consider. Typical expenses like baby food, diapers, and other needed supplies will drain one's bank account. Other expenses will arise like medicines, medical bills, insurance, holiday events, and more, so if one is ill-prepared the relationship will experience the strain. Days off of work is necessary to assist the new mother with the child.
Age gap relationships may weather the pregnancy and delivery challenges, but sometimes they don't. A man in mid-life is more interested in winding down and relaxing on most days, but this changes when the couple is expecting. A young lady may have thought she could keep up the pace at work and continue to do other things she loves, but the arrival of a baby is definitely a game-changer mentally and physically.
Although a relationship might feel quite nice, safe and secure, recognize all the factors that come into play once someone says, "I want to have a baby." Are you really ready for that? If not, protect yourself.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of When Mothers Cry and other books.
Saturday
Thursday
Young and So Dumb - What Some Selfish, Older Men Really Think of Women
Some mature men just don't think highly of women their own age much less young ladies. They can be hateful, angry, and rude toward women. As far as they are concerned they are good for periodic sex, a hot meal, money, and not much else. A 30 plus year old man who claims that he wants to settle down with a young woman who is 18 is definitely something to think twice about. She doesn't have much material wealth especially if she is still living with parents. Her life experience can't be compared to a man who is 10, 15 or even 20 plus years older than she. She is still learning and growing when it comes to life issues. The older man may have a daughter or son not that much younger who might still need to be parented. It is safe to say that the older man is most likely going through a personal crisis and what a nice distraction from his personal problems when he meets a bubbly, sweet young lady.
Of course, the mature man will attempt to persuade the young lady that he isn't having any midlife issues and that he knows what he wants. But the truth is, if you take a look at the gentleman's relationship history, how many other women did he claim to love, want, need, like? Notice what he says about the relationship endings and whether he is mainly blaming his exes and in-laws.
Some older men just love the idea of being with new sexual partners more so than settling down with them--no matter the age. But if a single or unavailable man wants to put his potential young lover at ease, he is going to say the kinds of things that will make her feel secure and safe with him.
"You are so pretty. I love that scent you are wearing. Would you like for me to buy you some more? I'm not the kind of guy who plays games, I know what I want, so will you give it to me? What would you think of being my wife one day?" The man who says these things obviously wants the young woman to feel special and consider keeping him around even though he isn't considering anything long-term or serious and may have told her so. The mature man is well aware that there are younger men who would very much like to date the young apple of his eye; therefore, he has to say whatever he can to keep her interested in him.
Some men laugh with the guys about the things they have said and done to win the trust of their young lovers. They enjoy the "dumb" act that some women play, but what they don't know is that there are those who are sincerely acting. When the time is right, those women will reveal their true selves and most likely the men won't like them so much. Then there are those young ladies who really are unintelligent and immature and so a lot of older men don't mind making them notches on their belts and then moving on. Sad, but true. These manipulative men will photograph or video record some of these young, obedient women and collect their images like hunters hanging up the heads of their prey on walls. With social media, online and offline albums, you never know just how many women have fallen prey to an older man's fantasies.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men and other books.
Of course, the mature man will attempt to persuade the young lady that he isn't having any midlife issues and that he knows what he wants. But the truth is, if you take a look at the gentleman's relationship history, how many other women did he claim to love, want, need, like? Notice what he says about the relationship endings and whether he is mainly blaming his exes and in-laws.
Some older men just love the idea of being with new sexual partners more so than settling down with them--no matter the age. But if a single or unavailable man wants to put his potential young lover at ease, he is going to say the kinds of things that will make her feel secure and safe with him.
"You are so pretty. I love that scent you are wearing. Would you like for me to buy you some more? I'm not the kind of guy who plays games, I know what I want, so will you give it to me? What would you think of being my wife one day?" The man who says these things obviously wants the young woman to feel special and consider keeping him around even though he isn't considering anything long-term or serious and may have told her so. The mature man is well aware that there are younger men who would very much like to date the young apple of his eye; therefore, he has to say whatever he can to keep her interested in him.
Some men laugh with the guys about the things they have said and done to win the trust of their young lovers. They enjoy the "dumb" act that some women play, but what they don't know is that there are those who are sincerely acting. When the time is right, those women will reveal their true selves and most likely the men won't like them so much. Then there are those young ladies who really are unintelligent and immature and so a lot of older men don't mind making them notches on their belts and then moving on. Sad, but true. These manipulative men will photograph or video record some of these young, obedient women and collect their images like hunters hanging up the heads of their prey on walls. With social media, online and offline albums, you never know just how many women have fallen prey to an older man's fantasies.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Socially Sweet, Privately Cruel Abusive Men and other books.
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