Now that your secret is out, what are you going to do about it? I mean he sounds so charming. He says things that no other man has ever told you. He makes you feel like you are on top of the world. You just never heard such wonderful things come out of one's mouth. Oh, but...we know he's ugly.
This is why you just don't settle young ladies for any man no matter how sweet, adorable or kind he is--you just don't! You don't make unattractive men think that you are into them, when you know you are not. You are basically living a lie! Sure those words these unattractive, older gentlemen say are beautiful, but when you walk with these men in public, who most women wouldn't even think of giving their time much less a second glance, you got to feel confident. You can't be concerned about what people think of you, a gorgeous 10, with the fat old guy. Instead, you have to motivate yourself to want to be with him despite his imperfections. You have to remind yourself you have flaws too. You tell yourself things like, "It's what's on the inside that matters...I will just have to overlook those things on his face I don't like. His crooked teeth...big ears. The fact he doesn't workout. I have to remember he is older and one day I will be older..." That's a lot of self-talk in order to maintain a relationship with someone you don't find attractive isn't it?
Save yourself all the mind manipulation and face the facts, you wouldn't give this man the time of day if it wasn't for those sweet things he says to you and his material wealth just might be an added benefit, right? So if the sales pitch you give yourself becomes a burden and you just can't keep making yourself go out with him, use some beautiful words of your own and start making a slow departure. It's for the best if looks are that important to you. Besides think of your future offspring (sigh). God bless 'em!