As much as some mature men would love a twenty-something beauty on their arms, what they don't realize is there is often baggage that comes with the hyper-sexualized type--those very sexy women who will do almost anything for a good time. From various personalities they can switch on and off to eating disorders, these sexy ladies are seriously too hot to handle and may create much drama in an unsuspecting man's life. Some older men don't realize what they are getting themselves into until its too late i.e.) rape accusations, stalking, jail etc.
When checking out these pretty young women both on and offline, mature men should consider the following:
1. Is the young woman often seen in photographs half nude or totally nude?
2. Does she strip, use drugs, or abuse alcohol?
3. How might accepting her wild lifestyle affect a possible future relationship with her, your life, or affect others in your family?
4. Is she frequently seen flirting or "hanging out" with males?
5. What is the likelihood that the young lady has slept with at least one or two of her so-called good friends? How might you feel sharing her with other men?
6. Does she have a close relationship with mom, dad or both to the point that it makes you feel uncomfortable or is her relationship so bad to the point that police had to get involved?
7. Have you experienced moments with the young lady that made you question whether she was mentally stable?
8. Has she asked you to do things to her or others that were strange, odd, or painful? Did you do these things against your better judgment? What might happen if you keep doing them?
9. Have you had dark dreams about her or experienced some bizarre things when she isn't around?
10. Does she curse often, yell, or make a big deal about things that most people wouldn't?
These are just some things you will want to think about before planning a future where you might be taking care of the young woman financially and physically. Some of these hyper-sexualized women know just how bad things are with them mentally, physically and spiritually while hoping to find a few good men to save them. When that doesn't work, they often do the following: get pregnant in the hopes their lovers will stick around, later abandon children, leave their babies with many different people, or choose to abort because they are incapable of handling the responsibility of raising children.
If you know someone who appears to have it together, yet tends to be overly sexy and has been at times very irresponsible in her decision-making, pay attention to the warning signs early on and protect yourself in more ways than one.
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7