A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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You Can't Help Who You Fall in Love With...
You might not be able to help who you fall in love with, but you can exercise self-control through the process. Too many people claim to be in love, but are they really? It looks more like falling head over heals in lust with others before they truly experience real love.
You know that your "love" for someone isn't real when you are easily offended over the things they say or do no matter how harmless and you find it hard to forgive. You know that you aren't in love when you are more concerned about one's appearance and less focused on how they respond to you. You know that you are still getting over your past when you find that your emotions are not aligning with the person you are currently with no matter how much you convince yourself you love him or her.
Love is active, peaceful, freeing, hopeful, caring, and considerate. But what love isn't is unkind, rude, arrogant, and selfish. You may love someone and he or she might be significantly older or younger. Check whether you sincerely believe that what you are feeling for this person is indeed love. Here's how...
1) When your partner is around, your thoughts are not often negative, but positive--you aim to please!
2) You think twice about talking rudely to your partner like saying mean things about him or her whether in-person or behind his or her back.
3) You often think of a future with your fellow or gal and you just can't see yourself living without him or her.
4) You are determined to make your relationship work no matter how difficult it gets. However, you have far more positive days then negative ones.
5) Any form of abuse is absent from your relationship. You wouldn't even think of insulting or assaulting your loved one.
6) You don't hesitate to help that special someone when called upon or even when there is no request. You are conscience of your partner's needs. "Thoughtful and considerate..." are words that your partner uses to describe you.
7) You don't mind proclaiming to the world that this person is your mate. You will defend him or her no matter what!
Whether black, brown, yellow or white, you just don't care about what others think. You love your friend and that is all that matters!
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You know that your "love" for someone isn't real when you are easily offended over the things they say or do no matter how harmless and you find it hard to forgive. You know that you aren't in love when you are more concerned about one's appearance and less focused on how they respond to you. You know that you are still getting over your past when you find that your emotions are not aligning with the person you are currently with no matter how much you convince yourself you love him or her.
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1) When your partner is around, your thoughts are not often negative, but positive--you aim to please!
2) You think twice about talking rudely to your partner like saying mean things about him or her whether in-person or behind his or her back.
3) You often think of a future with your fellow or gal and you just can't see yourself living without him or her.
4) You are determined to make your relationship work no matter how difficult it gets. However, you have far more positive days then negative ones.
5) Any form of abuse is absent from your relationship. You wouldn't even think of insulting or assaulting your loved one.
6) You don't hesitate to help that special someone when called upon or even when there is no request. You are conscience of your partner's needs. "Thoughtful and considerate..." are words that your partner uses to describe you.
7) You don't mind proclaiming to the world that this person is your mate. You will defend him or her no matter what!
Whether black, brown, yellow or white, you just don't care about what others think. You love your friend and that is all that matters!
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Tuesday
On Ending a Miserable Relationship
A man tells a woman that he is in love with her, wants the
pair to move in together, and promises to marry her and have children with his
special lady one day. The woman is
excited about the future. She tells her
friends just how much her new man has made her happy. The two plan dates on when to move-in
together and discuss a future date for a wedding. It all appears normal, right?
As the relationship matures, the couple begins to notice things about one another’s personalities that turn them off. The man is easily angered over small things like how his partner organizes things and how often she visits with her family. The woman isn’t happy about the way her mate talks to her when he needs something and isn’t fond of how he smells. In time, the little issues grow into bigger ones and the two break up. The former couple moves on with their lives.
During the process of breaking up, like the couple described previously, many individuals don't do anything about the anger still within after disputes. Communication might have left one another feeling disrespected. Offensive comments said by relatives and friends might have caused conflict. Bad relationships don't end up on any road toward forgiveness. Unfortunately, future daters coming along don’t know about the rude awakening that is sure to come when one is still not over his or her ex or other past partners.
As the relationship matures, the couple begins to notice things about one another’s personalities that turn them off. The man is easily angered over small things like how his partner organizes things and how often she visits with her family. The woman isn’t happy about the way her mate talks to her when he needs something and isn’t fond of how he smells. In time, the little issues grow into bigger ones and the two break up. The former couple moves on with their lives.
During the process of breaking up, like the couple described previously, many individuals don't do anything about the anger still within after disputes. Communication might have left one another feeling disrespected. Offensive comments said by relatives and friends might have caused conflict. Bad relationships don't end up on any road toward forgiveness. Unfortunately, future daters coming along don’t know about the rude awakening that is sure to come when one is still not over his or her ex or other past partners.
Ending a miserable relationship is not something that
happens easily when feelings are still apparent between the pair, but it can be
done successfully if one doesn't fall back into the arms of the one who is
hurting him or her.
1. Find some time to
be alone. Ponder on the things that have
made you so unhappy in the relationship.
2. Talk with loved
ones about how you feel in the relationship and consider their advice.
3. Don't spend much
time with a partner you are strongly thinking about breaking up with, this will
only cause confusion. You want to be
clear with him or her that you are unhappy.
4. Expect your date
to act ugly during this time when you both aren't getting along, so be sure you
safeguard your personal possessions and you alert necessary parties about a
crazy ex.
5. Whatever you do,
don't play the make up to break up game because you will only prolong the break
up process.
6. As much as you
want to believe someone has changed, the change he or she claims is
temporary. Most people are who they are
and can't easily go from being a mean-spirited person to a sweetheart overnight
unless their rage was substance induced.
Working toward a happy ending for you is the best way to end
a relationship. You are no longer
thinking of "We" but "I."
You recognize that a miserable connection is not what you want and so
you do what it takes to free you of your mistake.
Nicholl McGuire is the author of Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate, Too Much Too Soon Internet Dating Blues, She's Crazy, and Laboring to Love Myself
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