They tell you, " You are so young, why bother with that old man?" You think to yourself, "Yeah, why?" If you are thinking like this, then chances are this man is no longer worth your time young woman. "There is so much life ahead of you," they say. "They" (mom, dad, sister, brother, cousin, friends, etc.) don't lie when it comes to wanting you happy. Whay are you with him? There is, if you plan well, someone out there for you who wants marriage, children, and no additional baggage (like children from a previous relationship, a jealous ex, and unresolved issues on the job or with friends). You just have to be patient and discerning. Why be that depressed, young woman on this older man's arm faking smiles (and for some young women, orgasms too with a man who obviously doesn't turn you on anymore, if ever).
Let's just be honest, some men (and women too) just don't see their flaws or their personal dramas. If they do, they ignore them and hope that the person they are with will ignore them too. But how long will you look the other way when his soldier isn't standing erect, his children are being disrespectful or when he is often tired when you are ready to do anything but watch TV for leisure every weekend! There is something wrong when an older man doesn't appreciate or act interested in a woman who is young, sexy, energetic, caring, and intelligent. If all he can see and complain about is say: her annoying friend, her interests in her family, the way she organizes the house, or some odd thing she does with her eyes, then you have to wonder what kind of man is he. A perfectionist, controlling, stubborn, or just weird?
Yes, young woman, you who happened to come across this blog, could have someone more compatible. But for some of you, you keep your old man around like he does an old lazy boy chair, he's comfortable--that's right, comfortable. He may look worn, tired and may have a few things wrong with him, but he is still comfortable to sit or lay on. You just don't have the courage nor desire to trade him for a new one. The signs are all around you, "Get a new chair! Here's a quality one, better than the one you got...come get me!" the new, improved chair just screams, "I'm here. I can do a good job too!" But what do some young women do, look for reasons to keep their old chairs like their old men around until they have simply had enough! "I am tired of your lazy, old behind...can't you do more for me besides sit there and do nothing! Why do I still see the stains of exs, children and your health issues years later! What the X%$# have I got myself into?" the disgruntled younger woman yells.
When she has made up her mind (and one day she will) and sees that the old dog just won't do any new tricks with her (and only her), she will leave sooner or later. Pray for yourself or if you know someone in a relationship like this, pray for her.
Nicholl McGuire
Author of When Mothers Cry
A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
Here's a good example why you should do more observing and less talking when you date a rich, older man, you might learn a thing or two like his lifestyle is incompatible with yours.
Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
Young Bride Divorced Rich Old Man Because She Can’t Keep Up
When Dating Bubbly, Talkative Young Women Just Isn’t Working for You
They are youthful, exciting and have a lot to talk about,
young women who laugh more than they cry can make any man fall head over heels
in love with them. But when you are a self-centered
mature man, settled—caught up in routines, in time, you will be annoyed with
all the energy that some young women bring to the relationship.
At first it doesn’t seem to bother you, her smiling often,
but over time you find yourself starting to feel uneasy. You begin to wonder if there is something
wrong with you or maybe with her. “Can
someone be this happy all the time?”
Rather, you should be asking, “Why am I so cranky?” The young bubbly woman seems so much happier
and optimistic about the future, but you, not so much.
Casting all doubt aside and unresolved issues of the past,
face it, you just might not be her type.
Why force a round peg into a square hole? But what do some mature men do? Try too hard to impress in the beginning of
the relationship only to later become weary and unemotional toward a younger
woman’s advances, requests and desire to be heard. “It’s not her, it’s me…” he should be telling
himself. But years of playing the blame game
skews his vision and all he sees is that wide smile that he can’t muster on his
face asking him to, “Try this…Why don’t we go there…What’s wrong?” while
hearing her irksome laughter in his head.
Some men just shouldn’t waste a young woman’s time. Think: she has her life ahead. Why slow her down with unnecessary requests
to get her to change who she is? “Do you
have to talk so much, honey? Are you
always like this so cheery? I wish I had
your energy…” he says. So she likes to
go, go, go and giggle, giggle, giggle.
Isn’t that what you liked about her?
Why expect her to be anything different?
Maybe you use to be young and fun once, but these days that just isn’t
you. Why not be the bigger person and
end the relationship so that you can find someone with less energy, you know
someone more like yourself. Don’t worry
over making her cry. Besides, she might
be thinking, “He is such a grumpy man.
Wonder how I can get out of this one?”
There are those men who just don’t get it when it comes to
dating younger women, one size (personality) doesn’t fit all. No matter how many relatives, friends,
co-workers, talk shows, articles, and more that are out there that scream at
you, “Stay away from younger women, you are no match for them” some men will
try to date them anyway. Men, who just
aren’t out-going and don’t like to do much but work and periodically have sex should
stick to their own age group or alone especially if the slightest remark,
question, or joke bothers them. Most menopausal
single women get it, that’s why some prefer to be alone. They avoid both young and older men. “It’s just too much work to date,” some
say.
Far too many young women have had their poor hearts broken
waiting for some mature men to get their act together. They sold them a good sales pitch in the
beginning of the dating relationship only to let these women down, shame on
them! Unfortunately, some of these young
women overlooked the old adage which says, “You can’t teach an old dog new
tricks” too!
When you know you have a long pattern of reckless dating and
many stories that include phrases such as: “I didn’t like…couldn’t get along…wish things
were different…” it’s time to take that pause in one’s life and ask yourself
this question, “What the #$%^ am I doing?”
I’m sure the women your own age were thinking the same thing.
Nicholl McGuire
Saturday
Friday
Young Women: Don't Prostitute Yourself to be with a Mature Man, Men Don't Pay a Young Woman for Sex
Some women strategically plan to be with certain men because of their wealth. Unfortunately, they put their selves in a similar position of a prostitute. Listen to this audio and be enlightened.
Prostitution Bible Study & Commentary - YouTube
Prostitution Bible Study & Commentary - YouTube
Wednesday
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
I thought why not put up another article that talks about why dating an older men is awesome! If someone is feeling down about his age, maybe this young lady will perk you up (take your mind out the gutter!--LOL)
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
11 Reasons Why Dating An Older Man Is Awesome - The Frisky
Six Problems With Dating Older Men | Clutch Magazine
You've got to love articles that get straight to the point like the following one. I must admit, I laughed at this one, because I could relate. Thank God, all older men aren't like the ones this writer describes. Click here: Six Problems With Dating Older Men | Clutch Magazine
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