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Wednesday
Why a Younger Woman should Date an Older Man?
Written from a male perspective.
If you are interested in joining the dating game as a younger woman looking for older men, then you are heading on the right path. Older men are more mature, have more success in life, are usually further in their careers, and are overall a better companion to be with versus a younger man. In this article you will learn why a younger woman should date an older man.
If you are interested in joining the dating game as a younger woman looking for older men, then you are heading on the right path. Older men are more mature, have more success in life, are usually further in their careers, and are overall a better companion to be with versus a younger man. In this article you will learn why a younger woman should date an older man.
Here are five reasons why you should date an older man:
1. Maturity level – Ladies let's be serious here; younger men
are just not mature. For example, having a burping
contest with your lover is not what most ladies' would consider a good time. An older man has much more mature aspects
over a younger man. This is why when you see a young woman dating an older man, chances are she finds him a more suitable match due to his confidence in who he is and knowledge of life.
2. More successful in life – Most older men who date younger
women are a bit more successful in life.
By this I mean they have goals, some own homes, have nice cars, etc. I am not saying that this
is what is important in choosing someone to date, but it shows you their
overall character as a person and as someone you want to date.
3. Further in their careers - Older men are further along in
their careers. Again this is not the end
all be all if they are not. You just might have a great lover which would make up for an unimpressive income.
4. Better companion –Older men are better companions in
life. Why? This goes back to 1, 2, and 3. They are more mature, more successful, and
further in their careers. These things
show you the character of that person and their overall companion level will be with
you.
These are just the beginning stages when you ask yourself or
someone else, why a younger woman should date an older man? Again, this is just the beginning and should not be the end of the road for some daters.
If the man you are with is younger, but treats you good, that is better
than being with an older man who does not treat you good. These are decisions only you can make for
yourself and only you will learn in time.
Nobody can tell you what you need to do or who to be with in
life. You make that call. Use this article as a guide of what to watch
out for, but do not pass on something that is better.
Friday
Being In Love or Like? There is a Difference
Sometimes when one is dating, he or she forgets that every emotion that is experienced is not love. It doesn't matter how old you are, there should be someone to speak aloud in your circle, "Hey, you just met the girl, slow down...Seriously honey, you don't even know this man!" loved ones will say. This is a good think, don't take offense.
Those of us who remember being in love, know that the feeling lasts at least six months. You can't eat or sleep without the one you love. You plan for the future ie.) marriage. You show this special person off even to your enemies. You share just about everything with this person including your drinking glass--you just love them! But when you are in like, you don't really care whether they come or go. You definitely aren't planning any future and you aren't much interested in showing this person off especially around family. You will even think twice about letting their lips touch anything you eat or drink, "I don't know where her/his lips have been?" you think.
So the next time someone or even yourself teases, "You're in love..." Know the difference.
Nicholl McGuire
Those of us who remember being in love, know that the feeling lasts at least six months. You can't eat or sleep without the one you love. You plan for the future ie.) marriage. You show this special person off even to your enemies. You share just about everything with this person including your drinking glass--you just love them! But when you are in like, you don't really care whether they come or go. You definitely aren't planning any future and you aren't much interested in showing this person off especially around family. You will even think twice about letting their lips touch anything you eat or drink, "I don't know where her/his lips have been?" you think.
So the next time someone or even yourself teases, "You're in love..." Know the difference.
Nicholl McGuire
Wednesday
What's There Not to Love About Dating Older, Dating Younger?
What's there not to love about dating older men or dating younger women? Plenty, depending on who you ask and what has been one's dating experience has been like over the years. From immaturity to boredom, there are turn-offs about dating anyone older or younger. Therefore, you must be willing to pick out what you are capable of putting up with and what is most certainly a deal-breaker.
My name is Nicholl, the creator of this site, and I can tell you that for years I have been exposed to older men very interested in dating younger women. I have personally dated my share of older men as well and married two (one I am still with to date). But as I began to exit my energetic 20s and entered into my insightful 30s, what I thought I liked about dating older men had changed and what I thought they liked about me had changed too.
You see, the more you date, the more you learn about the manipulators, liars, pimps, players, and others who have far too many personality disorders to count amongst the good guys who just want to make you happy. As a young woman, you find yourself having to put up with some old fools, for a time, because you got yourself in a situation or two that you can't immediately exit without some degree of difficulty. Then, as you mature, you realize some older men just aren't as fond of you as you might think or portray. You discover they have been with so many women physically over their years, in addition to grappling with one or two mentally, that their mental capacity for dealing with yet another new face is overloaded. You discover that some (of course not all) mature men aren't really thinking or believing in long-term relationships anymore.
There is plenty not to love about dating someone younger who is immature, unstable, and still angry with dad, her last boyfriend, and everyone else in between. Further, one just might find that his young date may be a disappointing "all show, but no go." The same holds true for the older man who naively thinks that simply decorating himself up with some nice clothes and "smell good" while filling his pockets with some cash is all that it takes to keep a young woman interested. This tactic doesn't work for the wise young ladies on the dating scene. They are going to eventually request more time, affection, attention, and love and when the old player doesn't deliver, it is on with the next one. The young lady will be looking to exit the relationship sooner rather than later.
Take the time to list everything you don't like about dating someone older or younger and then ask yourself, "What am I willing to tolerate?" Taking this moment to reflect just might help you be more selective when it comes to dating older men or younger women in the future.
Nicholl McGuire contributes to this dating blog site as well, click here.
My name is Nicholl, the creator of this site, and I can tell you that for years I have been exposed to older men very interested in dating younger women. I have personally dated my share of older men as well and married two (one I am still with to date). But as I began to exit my energetic 20s and entered into my insightful 30s, what I thought I liked about dating older men had changed and what I thought they liked about me had changed too.
You see, the more you date, the more you learn about the manipulators, liars, pimps, players, and others who have far too many personality disorders to count amongst the good guys who just want to make you happy. As a young woman, you find yourself having to put up with some old fools, for a time, because you got yourself in a situation or two that you can't immediately exit without some degree of difficulty. Then, as you mature, you realize some older men just aren't as fond of you as you might think or portray. You discover they have been with so many women physically over their years, in addition to grappling with one or two mentally, that their mental capacity for dealing with yet another new face is overloaded. You discover that some (of course not all) mature men aren't really thinking or believing in long-term relationships anymore.
There is plenty not to love about dating someone younger who is immature, unstable, and still angry with dad, her last boyfriend, and everyone else in between. Further, one just might find that his young date may be a disappointing "all show, but no go." The same holds true for the older man who naively thinks that simply decorating himself up with some nice clothes and "smell good" while filling his pockets with some cash is all that it takes to keep a young woman interested. This tactic doesn't work for the wise young ladies on the dating scene. They are going to eventually request more time, affection, attention, and love and when the old player doesn't deliver, it is on with the next one. The young lady will be looking to exit the relationship sooner rather than later.
Take the time to list everything you don't like about dating someone older or younger and then ask yourself, "What am I willing to tolerate?" Taking this moment to reflect just might help you be more selective when it comes to dating older men or younger women in the future.
Nicholl McGuire contributes to this dating blog site as well, click here.
Monday
Broken Hearted Older Men with Issues - Young Women Don't Waste Your Youthful Years
He has yet to get over decades of heartbreak. The mentally-disturbed older man has his share of the following: self-esteem issues, sleep problems, sexual problems, mood swings, and weird behavior that if anyone knew, people would warn, "Keep away!" Of course, a single, young lady, who thought the older man was rather attractive during their first meeting, didn't know this about him during those times they lived separately and periodically went out on dates. But now, all hell has broken lose!
Independent young women, from around the world, tend to find out things the hard way when it comes to dating mature men. These men are skilled at being everything young women want them to be, that is until their dates sincerely get to know them. It is then when they act like fools, acting in ways that make a young woman think, "He's crazy, what did I get myself into!?"
When the young woman can finally say in confidence that she knows her older gentleman suitor, it is usually after she has been robbed of her youthful years worrying about him and what he might do or not do concerning her and possibly children! Her partner is a senior citizen behaving like a 20 plus year old leaving her feeling insecure, jealous, and angry, because he simply doesn't have his mindset and/or heart together!
"What on earth happened to my mate?" She thinks. "Why is he so grumpy? What did I do?" Don't beat yourself up with questions if you are a young woman reading this, you did no more than any other woman would do: you entertained him, did nice things, gave him good conversation, had sex with him, and became that friend he wanted. Now if the older man, with issues, can't see the benefits in being with someone like you, and has given you much grief for the things that originally won him over, then it's time to move on! Don't change who you are to suit someone who expects you to accept him for who he is.
Many young women who once were jovial in spirit, lose what little happiness they have left, because they allow a broken individual to sap their energy with his constant complaints, criticisms, and other rude behavior. Sometimes the only way a man can truly see the diamond he has seated next to him is to lose her!
There are those young women who have dated their share of older men who have mentally and/or physically scarred them over the years, that they finally arrive at a place in their lives where they don't want to date another older man 10 plus years. Good times become one too many bad times and so some of these young women will swear off dating old guys.
No matter the age, there will always be a broken hearted guy who just doesn't believe that he is a troubled individual. He will talk himself into believing that he just can't seem to find the right girl, when in fact, he is the reason why he can't seem to get along with most young ladies long term.
Perceptive young women can spot a broken, desperate old man from how he walks to how much he stares at them. The broken man doesn't think too much about how he makes others feel, because he is more concerned about controlling others to make him feel better--as if they can make him whole again. Consider this, when an older man doesn't hear the questions that a young woman asks of him and isn't interested in answering them during their dating phase, it is clear, he isn't interested in her mindset. When he doesn't take much interest in considering her suggestions for a future date, he has shown that he is a selfish individual. If this older man doesn't bother to make his date feel good by complimenting her, then he lacks compassion and is more concerned about other people and things then who she is as a person and could care less about keeping her around long term. And most of all, if he doesn't plan a future with her, then he has made it plain, she is nothing more than his "in the meantime" experience--that is until someone better comes along.
So before things, get too serious for some of you readers, recognize potential problems and know that a broken hearted older man can potentially sap the very life out of you if you aren't too careful! If you are already in such a relationship, find your peace of mind and make plans to be rid of your burden if nothing changes for the better.
Nicholl McGuire
Independent young women, from around the world, tend to find out things the hard way when it comes to dating mature men. These men are skilled at being everything young women want them to be, that is until their dates sincerely get to know them. It is then when they act like fools, acting in ways that make a young woman think, "He's crazy, what did I get myself into!?"
When the young woman can finally say in confidence that she knows her older gentleman suitor, it is usually after she has been robbed of her youthful years worrying about him and what he might do or not do concerning her and possibly children! Her partner is a senior citizen behaving like a 20 plus year old leaving her feeling insecure, jealous, and angry, because he simply doesn't have his mindset and/or heart together!
"What on earth happened to my mate?" She thinks. "Why is he so grumpy? What did I do?" Don't beat yourself up with questions if you are a young woman reading this, you did no more than any other woman would do: you entertained him, did nice things, gave him good conversation, had sex with him, and became that friend he wanted. Now if the older man, with issues, can't see the benefits in being with someone like you, and has given you much grief for the things that originally won him over, then it's time to move on! Don't change who you are to suit someone who expects you to accept him for who he is.
Many young women who once were jovial in spirit, lose what little happiness they have left, because they allow a broken individual to sap their energy with his constant complaints, criticisms, and other rude behavior. Sometimes the only way a man can truly see the diamond he has seated next to him is to lose her!
There are those young women who have dated their share of older men who have mentally and/or physically scarred them over the years, that they finally arrive at a place in their lives where they don't want to date another older man 10 plus years. Good times become one too many bad times and so some of these young women will swear off dating old guys.
No matter the age, there will always be a broken hearted guy who just doesn't believe that he is a troubled individual. He will talk himself into believing that he just can't seem to find the right girl, when in fact, he is the reason why he can't seem to get along with most young ladies long term.
Perceptive young women can spot a broken, desperate old man from how he walks to how much he stares at them. The broken man doesn't think too much about how he makes others feel, because he is more concerned about controlling others to make him feel better--as if they can make him whole again. Consider this, when an older man doesn't hear the questions that a young woman asks of him and isn't interested in answering them during their dating phase, it is clear, he isn't interested in her mindset. When he doesn't take much interest in considering her suggestions for a future date, he has shown that he is a selfish individual. If this older man doesn't bother to make his date feel good by complimenting her, then he lacks compassion and is more concerned about other people and things then who she is as a person and could care less about keeping her around long term. And most of all, if he doesn't plan a future with her, then he has made it plain, she is nothing more than his "in the meantime" experience--that is until someone better comes along.
So before things, get too serious for some of you readers, recognize potential problems and know that a broken hearted older man can potentially sap the very life out of you if you aren't too careful! If you are already in such a relationship, find your peace of mind and make plans to be rid of your burden if nothing changes for the better.
Nicholl McGuire
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