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A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
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The Funny Thing about Being with an Older Guy Is...
Nothing! The jokes on you today. Scroll this blog and be enlightened when it comes to older guys dating younger women and vice versa. Thank you much to our supporters!
Saturday
The Wider the Age Gap, The More Things to Consider
Love, friendship, compatible interests, similar goals, money, mental and financial stability, you name it and singles want it all. Some get lucky and others not so much in meeting a partner. Age gap dating is really not that different than dating someone your own age or close to it, but there are some differences.
This issue of age not meaning much only applies if the ages between the younger and older aren't extremely wide. But age is significant when a man is old enough to be the young woman's father twice! These people who love to talk about how age is nothing but a number haven't experienced many relationship differences, but for those who have and see the truth for what it is: He's really too old and she's really too young! So what makes this so?
1. Very little in common spiritually, mentally and physically. Frequent disputes, immaturity and/or substance, emotional or physical abuse.
2. Too little or too much money and an unwillingness to help with basic needs.
3. Worries over things like: gold-digging, family woes with the partner, and jealousy.
4. Employment and education focus -- too many long hours, not enough time spent together.
5. Health concerns that affect sex.
6. Unresolved issues with finances, former partner(s), business etc.
Whether you are the lucky older guy or gal who has landed a great companion or the one struggling in a May December relationship, there are some things to think about when dating older. This blog has many topics that range from age gap dating to dealing with mid-life challenges.
Media reports have shared studies where couples had a hard time staying together when the age gap in a relationship is very wide. The older guy isn't getting any younger and the young woman will not always stay young. So as the pair matures, needs change. What was good five or 10 years ago, isn't anymore. The internal issues of wanting more out of life rather than settling will be there for the young woman who feels the older gentleman didn't make good on his promises or isn't what she had in mind for a partner. The mature man will have his issues with mental and physical compatibility now that he is getting older. These are the facts and as much as some would like to blame everything but age, it is what it is.
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7.
This issue of age not meaning much only applies if the ages between the younger and older aren't extremely wide. But age is significant when a man is old enough to be the young woman's father twice! These people who love to talk about how age is nothing but a number haven't experienced many relationship differences, but for those who have and see the truth for what it is: He's really too old and she's really too young! So what makes this so?
1. Very little in common spiritually, mentally and physically. Frequent disputes, immaturity and/or substance, emotional or physical abuse.
2. Too little or too much money and an unwillingness to help with basic needs.
3. Worries over things like: gold-digging, family woes with the partner, and jealousy.
4. Employment and education focus -- too many long hours, not enough time spent together.
5. Health concerns that affect sex.
6. Unresolved issues with finances, former partner(s), business etc.
Whether you are the lucky older guy or gal who has landed a great companion or the one struggling in a May December relationship, there are some things to think about when dating older. This blog has many topics that range from age gap dating to dealing with mid-life challenges.
Media reports have shared studies where couples had a hard time staying together when the age gap in a relationship is very wide. The older guy isn't getting any younger and the young woman will not always stay young. So as the pair matures, needs change. What was good five or 10 years ago, isn't anymore. The internal issues of wanting more out of life rather than settling will be there for the young woman who feels the older gentleman didn't make good on his promises or isn't what she had in mind for a partner. The mature man will have his issues with mental and physical compatibility now that he is getting older. These are the facts and as much as some would like to blame everything but age, it is what it is.
Nicholl McGuire shares spiritual insight on YouTube channel: nmenterprise7.
Friday
No Acting Older Than You Are, Young Women are Watching
Older men, who feel the innate need to feel young again, have this personal issue that a young woman could care less about. As far as she is concerned she just wants to know that you are mentally, physically and financially stable. The last thing she wants to hear about is how forgetful you are getting, how you have an ache here or there, how broke you are, what you don't know, and how you can't get there from here. These are not the kind of things you want to share with a new date!
Older men that often complain about all sorts of things like bills, exes, adult sons and daughters, and long lines at the store are such a bore! Why bother dating young women? Some older men should simply stick to their own age group. These same grumbling men will drop hints about their lack (whether true or not) as well as have other ups and downs that exes already know about and young women will soon discover. The troubled older man would do better talking to their own age group about personal challenges or better yet, seeing a doctor.
Think about this, would any man want to hear a woman nag, cry or moan often about her woman problems? So why would an older man assume a young woman would want to hear about his mid-life woes? Now there are some women who have a heart for male mid-life issues, but others not so much especially those who have been on the fence about dating older men. You can easily turn young women off if you act older than what you are.
There is a fight to stay young if an older man should want to brave dating women with a significant age gap. A man has to have some degree of youth to keep the young woman liking, loving and respecting him. He doesn't have to act like a 20 plus year old, but he should exude the kind of confidence that says, "I enjoy life, having fun, and appreciate my companion."
Older men, who can't keep young women around, are the type who tend not to be happy with themselves much less anyone else. These men have no real desire to stay fit, live unsatisfactory lifestyles, and can't see beyond their personal challenges. It isn't any wonder why some will change partners like they do their undergarments--young women grow weary of grumblers.
It is safe to say that a young woman who sincerely wants a good relationship will stick it out with a man who doesn't make her feel miserable by frequently complaining and acting older than who he is. The last thing a young woman wants is to feel like her youth is quickly passing by because she is with an unhappy older man.
Nicholl McGuire
Older men that often complain about all sorts of things like bills, exes, adult sons and daughters, and long lines at the store are such a bore! Why bother dating young women? Some older men should simply stick to their own age group. These same grumbling men will drop hints about their lack (whether true or not) as well as have other ups and downs that exes already know about and young women will soon discover. The troubled older man would do better talking to their own age group about personal challenges or better yet, seeing a doctor.
Think about this, would any man want to hear a woman nag, cry or moan often about her woman problems? So why would an older man assume a young woman would want to hear about his mid-life woes? Now there are some women who have a heart for male mid-life issues, but others not so much especially those who have been on the fence about dating older men. You can easily turn young women off if you act older than what you are.
There is a fight to stay young if an older man should want to brave dating women with a significant age gap. A man has to have some degree of youth to keep the young woman liking, loving and respecting him. He doesn't have to act like a 20 plus year old, but he should exude the kind of confidence that says, "I enjoy life, having fun, and appreciate my companion."
Older men, who can't keep young women around, are the type who tend not to be happy with themselves much less anyone else. These men have no real desire to stay fit, live unsatisfactory lifestyles, and can't see beyond their personal challenges. It isn't any wonder why some will change partners like they do their undergarments--young women grow weary of grumblers.
It is safe to say that a young woman who sincerely wants a good relationship will stick it out with a man who doesn't make her feel miserable by frequently complaining and acting older than who he is. The last thing a young woman wants is to feel like her youth is quickly passing by because she is with an unhappy older man.
Nicholl McGuire
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